Why not use a screwdriver? Does a 43 have an alumninum frame? It's not like you're scraping the bore. I'm just curious as I've heard this before. But I've never came up with any good reason why a small screwdriver wouldn't work just fine. In fact, I've done in more than once. Never found issues with it. Not wanting an argument; I'm just curious. Thanks.
Hard rocks or metals scratch softer rocks or metals.
With steel the hardness is determined by the carbon content of the steel and how it was heated and quenched (tempered). Long ago I recall reading about quenching in water or oil. Different temperatures give different results. I am not into metallurgy - just have read a few basics.
Someone engraving a pistol needs a very sharp and very hard and very small bladed chisel. Hack saws have very hard teeth often carbide perhaps.
Geologists have a test kit for determining what the hardness of the sample is. Harder rocks always scratch softer rocks. Armature geologists toss together cheap items (I have forgotten) known soft rocks, copper coin, nail, broken window glass, pocket knife, file, whatever.
Hardness Collection with Test Kit - Amateur Geologist, Inc
Screwdrivers are pretty hard. You might notice that they often damage screws, not screws damaging screwdrivers.
I would never scrape a gun with anything except brass. (Copper often leaves a mark of copper on the steel). You can check the surface hardness of a knife blade by which knife blade will scratch the other. I first use the point of one against the side of the others blade. Then the edge to edge near the handle to see which will put a notch in the other. It is very easy to over sharpen a knife blade past the surface hardness. A good axe has a very hard center sandwiched between softer steels. You can always sharpen a good axe, as long as you do not overheat it on motor grinder or whatever belt.
You could check soft annealed steel or iron by taking the grips off your gun and scratching somewhere not obvious. Try heating a cheap screwdriver and letting it cool slowly perhaps? It is possible you might find the perfect lead scraper?
Longer subject than what most want to read about.