I have noticed the same thing as the OP regarding the type of electronic scales typically sold to, and used by, reloaders.
Having said that, I don't think one "type" is inherently superior to the other. But, you'll likely need deep pockets to acquire the very best of either.
However, for the price range of a consumer product, like a scale being sold to the general public that can at least display values on the order of one tenth of a grain (actual repeatable accuracy aside), the electronic scale offers the manufacturer and retailer the higher profit margin. The "brand name" on them is immaterial. They're all made in China (at least as far as the "guts" are concerned), in massive quantities for pennies apiece.
In contrast, I doubt you could make a "cheap" mechanical balance scale without it being obviously so to the consumer. The cost of manufacturing is likely higher and thus the profit margin is smaller.
The mechanical balance scale requires a bit more attention on the part of the user to get the highest level of repeatable accuracy. Oh, and you need simple math skills. If your methodology is consistent, your results will be consistent.
By contrast, as the OP has observed, even with great care, inexpensive electronic scales will show quirky shifts in value. It might be unpredictable jumps on the display while trickling that last tenth of a grain, or it might be disturbingly different values when you re-weigh the same item a few minutes later. In either case, I don't trust cheap electronic scales for critical usage.
I bought a Lyman 500 back in the 1980s. It's been a great investment.
Keep the fulcrum contact areas clean and dust-free, and make sure no dirt or other foreign matter is adhered to the pan, etc. Use on a level surface away from any cross breeze (air vent duct, open window, etc.).