For Those Alone At Christmas

I've been alone, and feeling very unwanted; after my divorce from the wicked witch of the east. Maybe you've seen her in the movie: The Wizard of Oz.

Tried to join the choir at my church, they ignored me until I went away. Called up friends hoping they would invite me to dinner, they didn't.

So, I had a turkey TV dinner and watched Leave it to Beaver.
 
Hope you all have a very Merry Christmas.

I have had over the year enjoyed this greatest "Band of Brothers" a person could ever hope for.

Here in Toronto we have been without power since Saturday evening. This for me has been a blessing. It has allowed me the opportunity to fire up the generator, bbq some fine venison, drink 15 year old single malt, and surf this website.

Tomorrow, I will find a Model 28-2 under the tree, and begin the day by sitting in front of a roaring fire while drinking one of the major food groups...coffee, until I get around to cooking my wild turkey shot this fall. I might even sneak a trip up to the range.

So if we chat, I will indeed be blessed. If not, your company over the year has warmed my heart, made me feel part of something larger and expanded my knowledge base.

Looking forward to a vibrant 2014!
 
Boy, Mike I was thinking of the same thing. Was going to post. You beat me to it. I will be at a friends place for a meal on XMAS day. Have no family so to speak where I live. Home town is 1,200 miles away. Mom and sister plus her siblings are the only family that I have. Divorced 16 years ago. Ex still lives here (Bitter divorce). Only child died July 21, 2009. The holidays are the toughest for me.

Steve
 
Merry Christmas, Mike.

I shall have a quiet day taking flowers to my wife's grave and cleaning that Swede Mauser I bought on Sunday. Maybe I shall speak to family in the UK if they are at an address to which I have a phone number. Later I'm taking sis-in-law and her husband out to dinner.
 
I've been alone, and feeling very unwanted; after my divorce from the wicked witch of the east. Maybe you've seen her in the movie: The Wizard of Oz.

Tried to join the choir at my church, they ignored me until I went away. Called up friends hoping they would invite me to dinner, they didn't.

So, I had a turkey TV dinner and watched Leave it to Beaver.

Hang in there buddy, been there and done that. It gets better and in a while, you'll be in a better place emotionally and in your life. PM me and I'll give you email address if you need to talk about things.
 
I hate for you who are alone over the Holidays, if you lived close, you would all be welcome here. You are not alone, you have many friends here. Merry Christmas, may the Peace of God be with all of you.
 
Merry Christmas, Mike, and to all who responded to your initial post. In fact, I also wish a Merry Christmas to all the folks who haven't responded, no matter whether they thought they didn't have anything to say or because they haven't yet come across this thread. Hope you all have a good Christmas Eve and an even better Christmas Day.

Earlier today I had three good hours with both daughters and three grandchildren. Now I'm home alone and the house is quieter than I would like, but there are things to do. I'm hanging out here, for one thing, and in a little I will open up the spreadsheets I am compiling and try to update my research records on a few rare S&W models that I track. Later in the evening I may mix up a cup of diabetic cocoa -- 12 oz skim milk, one tsp coconut oil, two tbsp pure cocoa and a couple of packets of Splenda or whatever it is called when they sell it as a generic without the brand name. If you don't heat and combine the ingredients in the proper order you can end up with a sludgy mess, but if you do it right you get a perfect evening drink. You might be able to make it with soy milk or almond milk, but I haven't tried that. I am a little suspicious of health foods that strike me as somehow synthetic. Anyway, that cocoa will probably help me get most of the way through a bad movie before I nod off, and then I will get some sleep -- assuming the cats cooperate. If they think they hear a mouse, they will be in motion all night long. Aargh!

Sometime around first light I will start to stir again. Recent sunrises in California have been spectacular, and I have been taking first-half-hour-after-dawn pictures. The world around me is painted in that low level orangy light that made artists drop everything and head for California over a hundred years ago. If you wake up early enough, or don't have to be stuck in traffic at the other end of the day, that light is still there to be enjoyed. I try to catch as much of it as I can.

I wish my wife could still be here to share the light with me, but I don't feel alone. At times when I sit and watch the world I get the odd feeling that I am sharing her with the light. Just because I don't have the opportunity for traditional conversation doesn't mean I feel alone at those times.

Well, enough of that. If you are home alone this evening, you will get a cocoa toast and salute from me in a while. I hope you feel it when it gets there. Singletons form an exclusive club, I am finding out. Even if you feel a little isolated on occasion, you are always in a giant virtual clubhouse with thousands of members who understand each other better than we can possibly imagine.

Merry Christmas everybody. Whether the times have been tough or easy for you this year, I wish you better hours and days ahead.
 
To those that need to talk PM me and I'll send my phone number or send yours. I'm not alone, my wife who is 13 years younger will be with me, but we have the time to chat with those that are, and maybe brighten their day a little. If you are close you are welcome to swing on by.

Our kids won't be here until tomorrow evening so just me, the little lady, the little girl our dog, cat and the chickens most of the day.

This is the toughest time of the year for lots of people, and especially those alone. We will probably call some of the older single church members tomorrow and make sure they are OK and they have their meals and maybe relieve some of their loneliness.

For all nationalities that I can remember on the forum;
MERRY CHRISTMAS
Happy Christmas
HAPPY HOLIDAYS
Zalige Kertfeest
Maligayang Pasko
Feliz Natal
Glædelig jul
vrolijk kerstfeest
Hauskaa Joulua
Joyeux Noel
Frohliche Weihnachten
Nodlig mhaith chugnat
Buon Natale
Feliz Navidad
Hartelijke Kerstgroeten
Gledelig Jul
Boze Narodzenie
Felices Pascuas, Feliz Navidad
God Jul
Καλά Χριστούγεννα
חג המולד שמח
Wesołych Świąt
לעבעדיק ניטל

For non believer Enjoy Your Day Off.

For those that have to work be safe.


And for our Jewish friends celebrating Hanukkah which I under stand isn't the same as our celebrating Christmas Happy Hanukkah.

And to our black friends Happy Kwanzaa which is the celebration to reinforce the bonds between parents and children I understand.

If I missed yours sorry and happy celebrating your holiday.

If any of the words or spelling is wrong sorry and please don't take offense as these are what I found on the internet and I only wanted to spread the greetings in you language.

And above all God Bless our troops and keep them safe.
 
Mike,
PM me if you feel like driving north up to East Central
Indiana. Your welcome in my home on Christmas.
Nobody should spend Christmas alone. We have lots
of food and good company.
Best Regards, Chuck
 
Keeping this in mind

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Merry Christmas from Texas my brother in arms. We celebrate and stand with you even from great distances.
 
Found this post yesterday. Last night I started to write but felt to lousy to do anything but just feel lousy. So dizzy I couldn't hardly stand Sunday to preach. Did both services, came home and crashed on the couch. Yesterday foolishly thought I was "better," so I drove 75 miles round trip to the range. It was fun, but after about a half hour I knew I'd fouled up. Came home and was just about dead.

It is now Christmas morning. I am home alone getting over the flu/virus... whatever it is that's got me so sick. I cycle between the couch... bathroom and bed. My wife left yesterday morning for the airport to fly to Boston, which is where all of the extended family gathers. Our youngest daughter and her husband had work obligations that precluded their traveling to Boston. If I get to feeling better I will drive the 2 1/2 hours to their house, but I don't want to pass what I've got on to them. They don't need to be missing work. My wife left me some homemade BBQ that I very much enjoy. I've got some Campbell's tomato soup and saltine crackers... so I'm all set for the next few days! I've got my Bible and some other good books so I can spend time reading and planning sermons for the new year. And for fun I've got a couple of Elmer Keith books... one on handgun cartridges and another general book entitled "Hell, I Was There." Also have some Capstick books to read. His book entitled Warrior is fascinating.

I hope and pray that everyone is having a very happy Merry Christmas morning with their family and friends. I hope that you all share the joy and peace and happiness of which the angels sang as like shepherd and wise men you come to Christ Jesus.
 
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Merry Christmas Mike. Next year, come on over to our house.
 
How about a BTT.

I'm not a doctor or any kind of health professional but I have a good ear. If anyone at anytime need a shoulder mine is available 24-7 just let me know as I'm a good listener, a PM will get you my number or just send yours and I will return the call or a email will get a reply.

Good thoughts for all this Holiday Season. May GOD be with us all, and for the non believers, everyone is loved.
 
I've got my Bible and some other good books so I can spend time reading and planning sermons for the new year. And for fun I've got a couple of Elmer Keith books... one on handgun cartridges and another general book entitled "Hell, I Was There." Also have some Capstick books to read. His book entitled Warrior is fascinating.

This sounds EXCACTLY like my library. In fact, I just finished reading "Warrior" by Capstick. It is a great book.

MIKE...many of us feel and experience all of the same emotions. So take comfort that you are not alone as we all have had similar feelings.

After I read all of the post in this thread last night I went to bed (in my -40 rated sleeping bag as we have no power here) I began to reflect on my Band of Brothers here on the S&W Forum. It struck me that most of us have never met one another. I know that to be 100% true for me, as I live in country that does not embrace the same love of firearms as my southern cousins, and finding kindred souls is rare.

However, we all find these creations of crafted wood and steel by two mechanical geniuses, and what they represent, to be our common bond.

I know that many of us have done military service in one form or another, or played a key role in supporting those that have donned a uniform.

We all take pride in being self-reliant and as many of us age, our greatest concern is being a burden to others.

We are the type of people that want to solve our own problems. Whether it be a car that does not start, a tree branch that needs to be chain sawed, a elderly woman's driveway that needs clearing, a kid's bike that need fixing. We are likely the guys the neighbourhood turns to when they need things done.

And while it might be more my view of myself, I do believe that ALL of us see ourselves as "Warriors", whether we be old or not so old. Being a warrior is not just about skill at arms, or the ability to physically do combat. It is about a mind-set that prepares us to face the challenges of the day, whatever they are. It is the as much the application of common sense to life's issues as it is the adherence to an honor code as to how to live a life.

At age 57, having reached the point I knew a change needed to be made, I began practicing kendo - the Way of the Sword. I undertook this journey into kendo for physical but also philosophical reasons. As a university student my mentor, an expert on Japanese business development, introduced me to the writings of Miyamoto Musashi. I used his writings in business as many have used Sun Zse. The point I am trying to make is that while the Bible and books of knowledge can provide insight, one of the greatest warriors of all time laid down some very profound insights in a quick easy to use guide. I find them extremely useful, and especially when being alone on Christmas, comforting. So I will share now with my Band of Brothers something that I have held as my "Secret Recipe of Life" with you this Christmas, in the hopes that it is useful and not the ramblings of an old man.

The Art of Walking Alone – 21 Precepts

1. Accept everything just the way it is.
2. Do not seek pleasure for its own sake.
3. Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling.
4. Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.
5. Be detached from desire your whole life long.
6. Do not regret what you have done.
7. Never be jealous.
8. Never let yourself be saddened by a separation.
9. Resentment and complaint are appropriate neither for oneself or others.
10. Do not let yourself be guided by the feeling of lust or love.
11. In all things have no preferences.
12. Be indifferent to where you live.
13. Do not pursue the taste of good food.
14. Do not hold on to possessions you no longer need.
15. Do not act following customary beliefs.
16. Do not collect weapons or practice with weapons beyond what is useful.
17. Do not fear death.
18. Do not seek to possess either goods or fiefs for your old age.
19. Respect Buddha and the gods without counting on their help.
20. You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honour.
21. Never stray from the Way

This is my gift to you all today. I hope you might find it useful, or at the very least entertaining.

All of you are part of a special breed and there is no place on the Internet that I prefer to spend time.

I wish you all a Merry Christmas, Peace of Mind, Good Tidings, and the comfort that all of your fears and concerns are at some point shared by all men of courage and honor, and that in having those thoughts places you in the company of a great Band of Brothers.
 
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I gotta say I envy you a little. Yesterday I got into a few arguments and ended up eating by myself. I couldn't hold in my comments on the complete retardation that happened so I told my family who can go where

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