A public parking lot monitored by video has always worked for me.
Same here and I either use tail gate of a pickup with a camper on it or inside truck or car.
I much prefer FTF transactions to buying by mail, but I do always go fully armed. I always meet in a very public place, preferably with security cameras. Also having someone with you can be reassuring, but most of the time I have been by myself and so has the buyer or seller I meet.
First of all you get to see the gun before you buy it, which is a huge plus.
Second you don’t have to risk the delays of sending money in and waiting for the mail, which is far from 100%. Guns get lost and stolen all too often by delivery companies.
Second you save the cost of shipping and of a transfer fee, which can add a lot of cost to the gun.
Third you don’t have a federal paper trail. You either have no paper trail or just a bill of sale, depending on how the sale is negotiated. This should be settled and made clear long before you meet FTF.
Forth, how scary is it to send several hundred dollars off to someone you have never met and hope that they will send you the gun as advertised. Now that is risky business. LOL I do it a lot, but I never like doing it.
On the downside is it limits you to guns in your area or to buyers in your area, and you have to take precautions that the buyer or seller you meet is not there to rob you. That is why you go armed, meet in a public place. I like Wal-Mart parking lots where there are security cameras and lots of people) and if possible have someone with you. However I have met in highway rest areas, at gun shows, and gas stations/convenience stores. I try and get a feel for the other person before we meet and I don’t answer just any gun listing. So far they have all been very pleasant meetings.