Gene Hackman 95 RIP

Watched Runaway Jury last night.
Sorta like a liberal's dystopian make believe dream world movie where a victim of gun violence sues a firearms mfgr and he's on the defense team. The movie is laughable at best and just plain ol' Hollywood make believe at worst.
 
Gene deserved better than this.

I hope this doesn't come off as insensitive on my part.

My guess, is that Mr. Hackman and his wife made a decision to carry out the later years of their lives in a certain manner. This can come with risks.

My parents are in their 80s. They are still doing relatively well cognitively, however there are signs this won't always be the case.

My sister is pushing for assisted living. My parents are pushing back. I am trying to find compromises. They are well aware of the risks. As long as one of them is still of sound mind, the decision is up to them.
 
My parents are in their 80s. They are still doing relatively well cognitively, however there are signs this won't always be the case.

My sister is pushing for assisted living. My parents are pushing back. I am trying to find compromises. They are well aware of the risks. As long as one of them is still of sound mind, the decision is up to them.
Chubbs, as far as compromises go, a home health care team, which visits once or twice a week is a good choice. Check with the insurance to make sure if they have coverage, but if they have, it can be very beneficial.
One of the best things is your parents would see a trained medical professional every week. They are able to see changes quicker than an M.D. every 6 months. Besides nurses, they have physical and occupational therapists, even dietary advice and can recommend physical adaptation to the home to make it easier for them.
Another thing is make sure you have the proper paperwork done now. Once a person reaches a certain point, they can no longer sign POAs, make changes to the will, sign a POLST etc. Don't ask me how I know, just trust me, you don't want to find out after they are incapacitated that you legally can't access their bank accounts to pay for care, re-register their car or even get their taxes done.
Watching your parents aging is tough. Doing it without the proper legal authority is crippling. I wish you nothing but the best in the future.
 
Another thing is make sure you have the proper paperwork done now. Once a person reaches a certain point, they can no longer sign POAs, make changes to the will, sign a POLST etc. Don't ask me how I know, just trust me, you don't want to find out after they are incapacitated that you legally can't access their bank accounts to pay for care, re-register their car or even get their taxes done.
Watching your parents aging is tough. Doing it without the proper legal authority is crippling. I wish you nothing but the best in the future.

This is absolutely right, in more cases than you might think. I used to belong to a support group sponsored by the ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease) Association for ALS patients, family members, survivors and medical providers. Even though ALS doesn't involve diminishing cognitive abilities, I advised our patients to execute these documents immediately while they were in good enough shape to come to the support group meetings and had 30 witnesses who could confirm that. My reasoning for doing this was even though the chances that any of our patients would be declared incompetent were very small, there was always the possibility of insinuations being made that the patient was so drained and enfeebled by his or her physical condition that the patient wasn't making making decisions that were as good as what he or she could have made. And that's where the lawyers might have to come in. Having all of this done in advance of the time of actual need prevents a whole flurry of documents being done at a time of crisis and to my mind helps head off challenges.
 
Straight from the AP today:
Gene Hackman died of heart disease, his wife died of hantavirus, authorities say | AP News

SANTA FE, N.M. (AP) — Forensic experts came to a heartrending conclusion Friday about the manner of death for actor Gene Hackman: he died of heart disease with complications from Alzheimer's disease on an empty stomach a week after a rare, rodent-borne disease took the life of his wife at their home in Santa Fe.

The partially mummified remains of Hackman, 95, and Betsy Arakawa, 65, were discovered Feb. 26 when maintenance and security workers showed up at the home and alerted police.

Authorities unraveled the mysterious circumstances and revealed that Arakawa likely died Feb. 11 at home from hantavirus pulmonary syndrome, a rare but potentially fatal disease spread by infected rodent droppings.

Hackman, in the advanced stages of Alzheimer's, apparently was unaware that his wife was dead.

"He was in a very poor state of health. He had significant heart disease, and I think ultimately that's what resulted in his death," chief medical investigator Dr. Heather Jarrell said. "It's quite possible he was not aware she was deceased."

Both deaths were ruled to be from natural causes.

Santa Fe County Sheriff Adan Mendoza said Arakawa's last known outing was a round of errands and shopping Feb. 11. She visited a pharmacy, pet store and grocery before returning to the couple's gated neighborhood that evening.

Arakawa stopped answering emails that day. The couple's cellphone communications have not yet been analyzed.
Hackman's pacemaker last showed signs of activity a week later, indicating an abnormal heart rhythm Feb. 18, the day he likely died, Jarrell said.

Hackman was found in the home's entryway, and Arakawa was found in a bathroom. Their bodies were decomposing with some mummification, a consequence of body type and climate in Santa Fe's especially dry air at an elevation of nearly 7,200 feet (2,200 meters).

The revelations about the manner of the couple's deaths jolted Santa Fe, the state capital city known as a refuge for celebrities, artists and authors.

"All of us that knew him should have been checking on him," said Stuart Ashman, co-owner of Artes de Cuba gallery, who cherished his encounters with Hackman at a local Pilates exercise studio. "I had no idea. ... It's just really sad. And that she died a week before him. My God."

Experts believe Hackman was severely impaired due to Alzheimer's disease and unable to deal with his wife's death in the last week of his life — or seek help after she died.

RIP Mr. & Mrs. Hackman.
 
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