I guess I'm just getting old....

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My earliest boyhood memories were during WWII. People all worked together on the home front and on the front lines to win the war. We all sacrificed to get the job done. Nearly every family with men in the 18-35 age range had a man or men in the services. Many women volunteered also as WACs, WAVEs, and WAFs, and even to be donut dollies with the USO. I remember saving money to buy war bonds. Even us kids pitched in.

After the war, thousands of returning GIs restored the country to prosperity, working hard, paying taxes, and doing their best with little or no government help other than the GI bill of rights. I watched those guys. They were my heros.

Every boy was raised with a BB gun for plinking in his back yard. He usually had a .22 rifle, too. I got mine at age 11. In our neighborhood, no one had to lock their doors. I don't remember that I ever had a key. The house was guarded by my pet dachsund, Fritz. And he was my constant companion in the field when we'd go hunting for rabbits. I cried bitter tears when he died, bless his little doggy soul.

We were tought respect for our elders and manners in school. We had to be able to recite the preamble to the Constitution in order to graduate from 8th grade. Most of us could do the first part of the Declaration of Independence, too. For most of us, our introduction to drugs was seeing the movie "the Man With the Golden Arm" starring Frank Senatra. "Lost Weekend" with Ray Milland taught us that alcoholism was not a good thing to get into.

In high school, they trusted us with guns. I took ROTC and learned how to handle them. Took an M1 rifle from our ROTC armory home on weekends for big-bore matches. Carted it to my afternoon classes and stowed it upright in a corner of the classroom. No one thought anything about it.

Ayn Rand wrote "Atlas Shrugged" in 1957. We all read it, but the warning it contained seemed too far fetched. I understand that even today it's on the best seller list, and that's because it was WAY too predictive.

We weren't taught racism - in fact, one of my teachers was a Black lady who we thought of very highly. She was accepted and respected like all of our teachers except one, and she was a White nut case.

We got demerits for "undue familiarity" like holding hands with our girl friends, and for smoking anywhere but in the baseball dugouts, where it was allowed but supervised.

In high school, Ike was President and times were good. We trusted our leaders because we knew and they demonstrated that they were acting in our best interests instead of trying to keep their particular party in power. Democrats and Republicans eyed each other a bit warily, but in general they got along and cooperated to get stuff done.

Gas was 30 cents per gallon, and there was plenty to go around. The car companies made pretty good products and priced them reasonably. No one in government cued them on what to do, what to say, or who their executives should be.

Self-reliance was a way of life. There weren't 20,000 government agencies and bureaucrats to "help" us. We just did what needed doing. We went to school, got educated, got meaningful jobs, and raised families of our own. I married my high school sweetheart, a lovely girl I had picked out of the pack back in the 3rd grade. She and I are still best friends and love each other more and more every day.

Our kids turned out all right. We warned them about drugs, and helped them to get college educations. We encouraged them to be with their grandparents, who were the best of role models. Our kids are raising their own families now.

We cared for our parents in their sunset years until they passed on, secure in the knowledge that they were loved, appreciated and respected.

Just today I went and placed flowers on the graves of my mother and grandmother in the local cemetery. They were special people and members of generations who were, by and large, exemplary folks. They went through the Great Depression. They were made of iron, and came through the fire forged into steel.

I'm retired now. But I remember an America that no longer exists, and I miss it a great deal.

What happened... what happened? I guess I'm just getting old.
 
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Many that I know share your feelings.

In some basic way the fabric of society has been corroded.

People are mostly the same,but what is acceptable and tolerated has crossed
some threshhold.

Then again,the oldtimers were saying everything
was going to hell in a handbasket back then.

Maybe this is a stage of life.

I don't know.

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Especially the part about growing up with guns.

I host a card game here once a month with 5 or 6 friends, all of whom are married and all have sons. Not a one of them is allowed to own a squirt gun. As for my friends, I doubt any one of them could bait a hook or start a campfire without a bic lighter and a pile of newspapers. They're great guys otherwise...I guess they just fell under the spell of the Nanny State at some point and forgot what's really important.
 
I'm retired now. But I remember an America that no longer exists, and I miss it a great deal.

What happened... what happened? I guess I'm just getting old.

My sentiments exactly. Grew up on a little 80 acre farm. If we went somewhere and came back there might be a note on the table saying so-and-so had dropped by, watered the stock, let the cat out and back in, had a glass of ice tea, etc., and "HOPE to see you next time."

Now you set the burglar alarm, make sure the windows are shut and barred, etc. AND hope that nothing happens while you are gone.

YES, things are changing...including the fact that indeed I am getting older.
 
Sir, your spot on with your posting.

It seems to me the turning point was the late 60's early 70's. My childhood in the 60's was much like you talk about. We moved to a different small town in Colorado in 1972. From that point on it seemed as if drugs, good times and doing what you wanted if it felt good was all that mattered.

When I was a kid there were very few Moms who worked outside the home. My Grandmother was one of the few but she was an RN and her job was more of a calling than a job. Even after she retired I remember people coming over to her house for shots, pills and other types of medical care.

For sure by the time of hyperinflation of the Carter era it seemed as if most Moms had to work. With few exceptions most elected officials were just in it for themselves. It has been a downward spiral ever since. Hell maybe I'm just getting old too.
 
Paladin, it sounds like you and I had the same beginnings?

Every word of it held true for my experiences.

Those truly were better days. There was hope, respect and civility.

The government, even though not perfect, was not out to destroy our way of life.

Personal responsibility and hard work were the norm, not something to be scorned and rejected.

Honesty was "the best policy". You could trust your neighbor.

That was a great piece of writing. Thanks.
 
Paladin, I am from the generation just after yours, a baby boomer. I tell you, don't worry too much. Yes, our country has changed a great deal, and many of the changes we don't like. But the America you love is still here. We are still the greatest country in the world, our young people are still a great generation, just look at our all volunteer armed services. The skeptics and paranoids have predicted the demise of us since 1776. We have withstood the British Empire, civil war, the family feud that was WWI, the depression, the New Deal, Imperial Japan, Nazi Germany, the Soviet Union, the 60s, Watergate, Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton, and 2 Bushes. We WILL withstand Iran, the Taliban, Barack Obama, Nancy Pelosi, North Korea, the housing crisis, foreign competition, and global warming. Yes things will change, we will wax nostalgic, and yearn for days gone by, but we will still be the United States of America. We will still be the land of the free and the home of the brave, a country of the ideals of the men on Mt. Rushmore. Do I hear Kate Smith singing? Nothing wrong with getting old, beats the alternative.
 
Remember that between the sky high divorce rate and the sky high illegitimacy rate the majority of boys for the last 20-30 years have grown up fatherless. Hey, I grew up fatherless in the 50s and 60s. No memories of my old man taking me fishing or shooting, lots of memories of my mother dragging me along on shopping trips. The nature of shooting sports requires
adult supervision, it's not something kids can just pick up on their own. And no, I do not consider making a zip gun (how quaint)part of the shooting experience.
 
I was alive during WWII but too young to remember anything about that. Everything else you penned rung true. Our innocence ended when a rabid punk named Charles Starkweather mass murdered a bunch of people in 1958. People in my town locked their doors after that. Then came the '60's and 'free love' coupled with open resistance to VietNam. Welfare was born in that decade too. It all seemed to go downhill from there. Now we're reaping what was sewn decades ago. I forgot Dr. Spock and his inane book regarding how to raise children. We live in a society of people full of envy and wanting a free lunch. The pendulum will swing back and it won't be pretty...
 
When every thing that you do wrong is not your fault and there are no particular consequences for laziness, that is what you get.
 
It was nice living in those times. We'll just hafta work on fixing these up a little. Remember when your word was your bond?
Wow! Long time ago.
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Paladin; I agree with you completely. I was 10 when Pearl Habor was attacked & 14 When Japan surrendered. Nobody in my family was in the service but my Dad was a Telephone man & Mom worked at the shipyards. I was in the ROTC in shool & trained with a 1903 Springfield.I was too young for WW2 but just right for Korea. And Yes, we didn't lock our doors either.
 
I liked the thought about not locking your house,,,hell it wouldnt do any good because in those days, all houses had the same lock, hell you could buy a key at the gambles store for 5 cents,,,they were called skeletin keys ,,,everyone had one
 
Hey Old Pal- It's late, and that was a wonderful bedtime story.Makes me wish I was older now.. I went to Highschool in the 70's... Think I'll wander off to bed now and Dream of a different America. One the same as you described. God Bless Fritz. I wonder if he knows Heidi, my Dachshund from when I was kid- ?
 
I appreciate hearing from you all on this. It's great to hear from other "old timers" who remember the way things used to be. I agree that there are rays of hope, particularly with the young men and women who volunteer to serve in our armed forces and who do so with distinction. Let's all hope we can work together to prevent our great country from sliding headlong into bottomless debt, socialism, and big brotherism. There are far better ways, and some of us still remember them.
 
If you remember the war years then you are a bit older than me. Most all else you said were very reminiscent of my early years as well. That said, I do remember the milk guy coming to our house once a week. You left out your empty glass bottles and he would leave the same. Mom would get really mad when I would sneak on the porch and leave out the "tab" for chocolate milk.
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We will still be the land of the free and the home of the brave, a country of the ideals of the men on Mt. Rushmore.

I hope the poster is correct, but I am not so sure about the last clause, and that is what worries Paladin, I suspect, and I know it is what worries me.
 
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