Well, here is where you and I completely disagree.
I will have a woman who is confident and will be eager to come out and continue to hone her skills
I am 100% confident I did the right thing and a year from now, she will be a better shooter because of it.
Considering the demographics and background of those that make up the majority of this forum, I'd expect most members will disagree with me on this topic. I'm ok with that.
What skills is she honing that will help her in an actual defense scenario?
Being a better shooter on the context you presented will not necessarily make her more capable of defending herself effectively.
Confidence and lack of fear of handguns. That right there is the best reason. Can't understand how you don't get that.
False confidence is not a good thing and fear can be overcome with a minimal amount of education and proper training.
Considering the demographics and background of those that make up the majority of this forum, I'd expect most members will disagree with me on this topic. I'm ok with that.
That's Great cuz I disagree with you..
What skills is she honing that will help her in an actual defense scenario?
You are REALLY asking this question?? Seriously????? The lady is only developing the ONE basic skill that is required to survive a self defense situation: The ability to hit the Target!!! EVERY self defense thread I've read all boils down to one thing and it's NOT caliber or the amount of ammo the gun holds. It's Bullet Placement, Center Mass..... Period...
Being a better shooter on the context you presented will not necessarily make her more capable of defending herself effectively.
From what I read the lady wants a caliber she's comfortable with which will make her extremely capable.. So what context are you talking about??
Ok. But then she won't buy or shoot a gun. You can't force people into something. Your solution is completely wrong. It isn't false confidence.
Stay the course eb07 and Great Job!!!! Mister X seems to just want to argue.....
The only time I had to pull a gun for defense ( of myself and soon to be wife) was 33 years ago. It was a lowly Jennings J-22 but just the sight of it sent the three would be assailants running. Proving the point that any weapon is better than no weapon .
I always appreciate your perspective, but am wondering what your source for this is. I've seen you reference Tom Givens before, but when I look at his statistics for the 66 civilian shootouts his students have been in, 92.5% were between 3 and 7 yards. Only 3% were under 2 yards. He says his stats parallel the 20 to 30 shooting/year where FBI agents were "robbed" when bad guys didn't realize they were robbing FBI agents.....
Civilian self-defense encounters are almost always quick, dirty and occur at contact or point blank ranges.
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My context is effective personal protection/learning how to fight with a gun and that is what the woman in the OP was wanting, but what she received was a shooting/shooting sports perspective as these statements from it illustrate...
"Taught proper grip, stance, sight picture, and trigger control. Absolutely accurate on steel targets at 15 yards. 10 for ten after the second mag for 7 mags worth. She had a smile on her face."
"I have seen so many who were not gun people get pushed into bigger guns they could not shoot accurately, properly manipulate, or felt uncomfortable with and ended up either abandoning the sport or just throwing it in a drawer never to use again or rarely using it."
Civilian self-defense encounters are almost always quick, dirty and occur at contact or point blank ranges. How to get the weapon into the fight is obviously vital and often extremely difficult, but seldom trained by "shooters". The same applies to weapon retention. Firing from stable stances, with a secure two handed grip using a traditional sight picture is not something that is likely to occur in an actual civilian scenario. Since there was mention of a "client" being a possible threat in the OP, that tells me she is working in close proximity to the individual(s) she is concerned with, so a contact scenario even the more likely. Despite what some instructors may say, it's difficult to keep a semi-auto running in an ECQ situation no matter the training of the individual.
Semi-autos need a certain amount of stability to cycle reliably, but will she be able to keep that .22 auto running while moving, with a crappy one handed grip, while possibly being in physical contact with her assailant? Maybe, but I wouldn't bet on it. Plus figure in the finicky nature of .22 autoloaders and of rimfire cartridges themselves. Consider the low stopping power potential of the .22 combined with an untrained woman, who may possibly be older, so situational awareness, reflex and quickness of action and thought aren't going to be on the high end of the spectrum, meaning it going to contact highly probable. If if she has distance, she would likely run out of time.
I've come to notice gun guys seem to have a certain disdain or dismissal for physical fighting and like to take the perspective that they will always have a certain amount of time and distance on their side to effectively "smite their foe" from a safe distance and that that they will be capable of doing so despite no training beyond static range work, but that unfortunately isn't reality. And while I would absolutely agree that the vast majority of civilian armed defense situations are resolved by simply producing a weapon or as soon as shots are fired, that cannot and should not be counted on. She may not be able to break contact or convince the assailant(s) they have somewhere else to be and should move on to another easier victim. She may have to physically stop them and I just don't think a .22 is acceptable in that context, because even if there is adequate separation to get off multiple shots, she would have to make fairly precise hits, while in a panic, against a moving target, while she is likely in motion herself, which she will likely never practice and even if she did, that would be an ideal scenario not what is likely.
I think she would be much better armed with an enclosed hammer snub in .38 special. Standard pressure ammunition is extremely mild and neither my wife, mother or even grandmother(in her 90's) have any significant problems with it. If she absolutely insists on a .22, there are choices available in revolvers.
From Massad Ayoob...
The Real Ladies Gun -- Handguns
I always appreciate your perspective, but am wondering what your source for this is. I've seen you reference Tom Givens before, but when I look at his statistics for the 66 civilian shootouts his students have been in, 92.5% were between 3 and 7 yards. Only 3% were under 2 yards. He says his stats parallel the 20 to 30 shooting/year where FBI agents were "robbed" when bad guys didn't realize they were robbing FBI agents.
Here's a link...
http://rangemaster.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/2018-03_RFTS-Newsletter.pdf
Hang on, he's about to recommend enrolling her in eee-see-kew-see.
So as a new shooter I should have immediately taught quick draw and running and shooting?
Do you even understand that the basic building blocks need to be taught before she becomes a pie hitting super tactical 3%er taking down attackers john wick style and running punisher skulls on her lifted truck and putting all her training classes in her signature lines on tactical forums?
Now I don't even know what to say to your out of the zone of reality comments on how to teach a new shooter and introduce them to handguns so I will just stop responding.
Wow, you literally didn't understand a single thing I wrote.
What an uninformed, uneducated and untrained individual likes is largely irrelevant. They have no knowledge or experience in which to make any kind of informed decision. What they prefer in the context of shooting after one range visit means little in the context of what would be an effective self-defense choice.
Most gun guys tend to be "shooters", whose training is limited to static range shooting, who want to get people involved in range shooting in the same manner they do it and approach personal defense from this perspective, but shooting and armed self-defense(fighting with a gun) are two very different things, just like there is a big difference between certain martial arts and practical unarmed self-defense. If a woman is solely interested in learning effective H2H methods and rape prevention skills, she is going to have to undertake training that is relatively strenuous and involves some compromising positions. The local mcdojo will likely be more fun, easier to learn and perhaps not involve participating in training methods utilizing techniques which many find uncomfortable, but she won't likely learn skills that would be applicable in an actual assault and instead simply gain a false sense of confidence.
I've lost count of the number of people who my mother said have recommended she get a .22, but the reasons they give for their suggestion are always isolated to target shooting. My mother is a pragmatic, and is only interested in choosing the most effective tool for the most likely realistic scenarios she will face as an armed civilian and her weapon of choice is an S&W 442. She chose this weapon after thoroughly educating herself by studying the competing arguments for and against various weapons, considering the most likely potential threats and scenarios she would encounter as an armed civilian, her likely response and how each weapon would be used and perform in them and came to the conclusion that the supposed negatives of the .38 snub really only applied to target shooting and it's strengths were likely to be beneficial in the most probable actual personal defense situations. Shooting, being a shooter, the shooting or gun community had nothing to do with it as it shouldn't.
A .22 is no doubt better than nothing, but I would never recommend one for personal defense unless there was some sort of severe physical impairment. No way would I ever want my wife or mother to depend on one in matters of life and death.
I could NEVER in good faith recommend a 22lr to anyone for SD. Two reasons; incredibly poor terminal performance & 22lr is notorious for being unreliable.
Recoil is a managed thing, isn't gonna happen on day one. A larger frame 380 would be the minimum. Recoil is milder than the small guns & more grip for more control. A steel frame 9mm would be next up, something like a 5906 or even single stack 1911. If anyone has difficulty racking the slide on just about any pistol, it is poor technique that is the issue. I can get an 8y or 80y old to rack a pistol slide, proper technique is the issue.
I start all my new shooters, old, young, male, female, strong or weak with a 22lr. Then we start moving up. I have gotten brand new shooters shooting decently with a 1911 & 45 target loads. 38sp wc are almost as soft as 22lr & a 3"-4", medium size 357mag with 148gr WC is a no joke decent SD gun with minimal recoil. If you can shoot a 22lr you can shoot that.
Actually, not at all. But, you did confirm my earlier assertion that many on here are dismissive and have disdain for any type of physical fighting methods or combatives. In your case, I think the derision is likely based in fear and feelings of inadeqauency.
Eb07's friend went from being able to handle 0% of self defense situations to being able to handle 99.75% of self defense situations.
I'd say that's a pretty good jump.
Please continue to argue about how to handle the remaining 0.25%.