I'm speaking in general terms here, but let me get this straight.
- So 9mm out of a 14-oz or so semiauto is good!
- 38+p out of an 11-oz revolver is good!
- 357mag is good to go!
- 44 special and 44 magnums are good!
- 10mm is the bestest!
- 40s&w out of a revolver or semiauto of any size or weight is wayyyy too snappy, has an intolerable recoil impulse, and fast and accurate follow-up shots are almost impossible???

What's hilarious is all of the 10mm pistols coming to the market and how everyone is seemingly ranting and raving about it right now when 99% of ammo manufacturers are loading 10mm to 40s&w like specs, and the other 1% are loading 10mm to be much, much, much more powerful and "snappy" than standard 40s&w for hunting purposes.... Make it make logical sense!
It's all in people's heads. It's a placebo effect, marketing, and herd mentality. When people were told that 40s&w was in, everyone was fine with 40s&w. When everyone saw law enforcement carrying 40s&w, everyone wanted 40s&w. When they were told/indoctrinated into believing that 40s&w was too snappy and to dislike or even hate 40s&w, they convinced themselves that it was all true. Then they hypocritically had no bugs up their buttons when it came to other just as or more "snappy" calibers, shooting/carrying small light weight pistols that are just as snappy, or going to 40s&w disguised as 10mm. It's like it's become cliche and the cool thing to be critical of 40s&w as a canned response.
I own and have fired 40s&w out of an M&P Shield, Sig P239, Beretta PX4 Compact, and a Kahr MK40 and K40. I've fired a plethora of different
popular 9mm ammunition and handgun combinations that had more recoil and weren't enjoyable to shoot vs. my experience with shooting 40s&w out of my examples. I've also fired a Springfield XDS in 45 that was popular not too far back that was much worse than any 40s&w I've ever fired. Don't get me started on 357 mag and 44mag. I personally would love to see a blind folded range test where the 40s&w "recoil impulse and too snappy" critics who random platform and caliber combinations, and tell us which they think is 40s&w and which are not. I'd put money on them looking foolish when it's all said and done.