My father died at ninety, fifteen years ago this November 22. He was a war correspondent in WWII. He was far too shortsighted to serve in the military; but at thirty-three he hit Omaha Beach with one of the first units ashore in the first wave on 6 June, 1944.
As a kid and a young man I was privileged to be acquainted with many veterans of the war. One married couple were good friends of my family. He had been an infantry officer in North Africa, Italy and southern France, and she had been an Army nurse.
Four of my mother's brothers were in the Army, one in the Aleutians and three in Europe. The eldest was in on the liberation of some of the worst concentration camps in Germany.
None of these veterans would talk about their combat experiences, though they'd occasionally tell a funny story. None was ever the same after the war. The uncle who fought in the Aleutians committed suicide seven years after hostilities ended.
These were my idols. To a part of me they always will be.