...don't berate him for it....
I'll respectfully disagree on two distinct points.
First, I saw nobody "berate" anyone. Secondly, the reply by
collects paints our intention as well as any, excessive handling of loaded firearms increases chances of unintended and/or negligent discharge.
In your reference to an article in today's paper, that child didn't get shot because a gun didn't get unloaded, that child got shot because
the firearm was not secured. If the same kid finds the unloaded handgun and ammo, your result may be the same.
There's no excuse for firearms left about for anyone to stumble over, loaded or otherwise. And those of us who know better aren't going to be derailed by anyone's judgement of
courtesy.
If you carry a handgun daily for personal protection, it's a poor habit to be constantly loading and unloading that handgun, regardless of what type of handgun it is. And if you are not in
direct control of it,
secure it.
And set all your "feelings" aside. Frankly, they simply aren't that important.