I am looking for some help on ammo for our Shield 9mm. This will for my wife and she is a novice shooter,as am I. The gun is strictly for home and self defense, and plinking at the range. We had some 115 gr. Blazer Brass when we bought the gun, which she liked. Then I bought some 124 gr., which was a hotter round, and she doesnt like the extra kick. So anyone have suggestions for a low recoil, newbie friendly HP round similar to the Blaser round?