I don't mind you asking at all. Lack of strength was actually my first concern. So I called my brother (who has been shooting since he was old enough to hold a gun)

and told him what was going on. He chuckled and said "You're probably not strong enough to get it back together. Bring it over and I'll help you." So I took it over and his smile quickly faded as he also had difficulty getting it back together. His exact words were "WHY is this gun so tight?!" He was concerned as he has been shooting S&W for a very long time. I told him I was going to get on the forum for some good advice. Thanks very much.