Mike (shouldazagged)

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I've been trying to contact someone here for nearly two weeks--it took awhile to find you.
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I'm Mike Adkins' sister, and am terribly sad to tell you that he has died. Only a few days prior to his death, he was discovered to have lung cancer. It was already stage 4, and had metastasized to his bones, liver and lymph nodes. No treatment beyond palliation was possible. He went into inpatient hospice two weeks ago, was soon unconscious (partly due to heavy pain medication, partly because of the cancer on top of his pre-existing emphysema and pulmonary fibrosis) and died early the next morning. He was just shy of 82. He was 38 years sober, and had helped a lot of other people get and stay that way.
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If you're in Louisville on the 14th, his memorial service will be at St. Mark's Episcopal Church, 2822 Frankfort Av. As presently planned, visitation will be at 1 pm and the service at 3. Memorial gifts can be made to any cancer charity, any food bank or any good animal rescue society (but especially the amazing Kaydee's Promise Feline Rescue, which is on Facebook and which hooked him up with Satch, his last cat. They got me my lovely Captain Carrot, too.)
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What can I say? He was the best, kindest, funniest human being I have ever known, and I've known some good'uns. He was 13 years my senior, and in a home where all was not always well, he had my back from the time I was a toddler. Right up to his death, we talked on the phone every day, often for an hour or more. A huge bleeding hole has been torn out of my life.

I'm not a gun person--'fact, to be honest, I can't stand them. But he loved you guys, and I wanted to let you know that.
 

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Ms. Adkins:

Welcome to the Forum. My most sincere and heartfelt condolences on the loss of your brother. I never had the pleasure of meeting him, but he struck me as a very kind and generous soul, and a real gentleman.

An example: a few years ago, Mike held a karma drawing for a Buck 110 folding knife. I was lucky enough to be drawn as the winner, and Mike sent me a message asking for my address so he could send the knife to me. I asked Mike if he would mind my giving the knife to my son, who was 16 yrs. old at the time (he's now 21) as a Christmas gift.

Mike graciously gave permission for me to do this, and he then paid for expedited shipping so I would receive the knife in time to give it to my son on Christmas day. Boy was my son pleased and surprised at the gift! After I told him the story behind the knife, he asked if he could have Mike's email address so he could send him a thank you note. After receiving the thank you message, Mike wrote back to my son and complimented him on his good manners, and encouraged him to use the knife while hunting and fishing.

Both my son and I mourn his passing, as do his Forum friends and family. My best wishes to you for peace and strength.

Warmest regards,

Dave
 
Rain,
Thanks for sharing with us. Your brother was held in high esteem here.
You probably know that his User Name was shouldazagged. I still smile when I think of it. What a wit he was!
We'll miss him. You'll hear plenty about that in this thread, but you might want to read this thread- Absent Comrade
My sincere condolences to you and yours. Godspeed.
 
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My eyes are misting also . We pm-ed back and forth , I don't remember what about . It was either S&Ws or pets . I never met him face to face , but I consider him a compadre .

One Day At A Time
 
Like many others here I never met Mike in person but through his humorous posts I feel I came to know him fairly well, and had a great deal of admiration and respect for that fine brother of yours and comrade of ours. May you find peace in knowing he was well loved here.
 
Rain, your brother Mike represented the very best of the many fine people on this Forum, and I think he was the heart and soul and conscience and wit of this place at its highest expression. He was our brother, purely and simply, and while we are so saddened and regretful at his passing, we remember how much he influenced us for the better and provided a smart, sane, optimistic, and humane example for us. A helluva good man, and like others who have said so, I too hope that you will be cheered and comforted by the high regard and esteem we held, and hold, for our "shouldazagged," your brother Mike Adkins.
 
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