Interesting. I promoted home ordnance and ballistics while my son was growing up. He learned safe handling from an early age. (his ol' man is somewhat of a hardnose when it comes to serious business) He was my brass handling assistant for years, resizing every spent case on a single stage until he caught on. Nowadays I have to process all my own brass, even if he comes over and takes a bunch of my ammo and shoots it all up. No complaint here, though; he's a fine family man and a good shot to boot. He's got his own reloading setup now, so he won't be cleanin' me out again any time soon.
When it was time for him to learn to shoot, he went through everthing I had at the time, including .38s, .357s, .41 mag., .44 mag, .45 acp, and 9mm, plus a couple of carbines and rifles. His choice? He settled on a 4' Victory. It was the revolver for him. The gun is old an a little beat up but it shoots great, and was 'soft' (his description) in the hands of a youth. I believe that some sytems approach perfection.