I own a 66-8 and 19-9 and shoot mostly magnums. They are both built like tanks and can handle all the magnums you can handle. The frame on the 19-9 and cylinder lockup is slightly different to help retain the vintage Model 19 vibe a little more. The top strap is slightly thicker.The Model 19 is carbon steel with either a blued or nickel plated finish, the Model 66 is stainless steel, that is really the only difference between the two. Both will be equally durable and both will share the same weakness, which is the flat spot at the bottom of the barrel shank. This weakness was addressed with the introduction of the Model 19-9 and 66-8.
I agree if you are talking about the vintage K frames verse the larger frames. But the modern redesigned K frames can handle magnums without any issue or worry. According to Jerry Miculek the forcing cones on the new K frames are strong as the N frames.If you want shoot real .357 mag, buy L- or N-frame revolver.