I suppose one can get used to and quite good with just about any trigger weight if at it for a while. Kinda like Sgt. Alvin York did. I know it is a hard concept to put into writing here, however when I tweak a revolver's action it is a good improvement over factory and still way within proper and more than adequate "hit" to reliably and consistently set off any and all primers. I would not have any revolver that was marginal! All my hits are good, solid deep primer hits but my triggers have been improved over factory.
As far as the one pound goes, I would tend to agree with you but as a precision target shooter myself, having a 2.75 - 3 lb pull over a 3.75 pull is just so much nicer to let off accurate shots with. I know many shooters aren't fussy and just get used to their factory triggers as they are. Me..... I like what I like. It's not easy being me - LOL!!