Respect desired - buyer or seller, guns shows or private
Hello Forum;
Maybe not the right thread and if so I apologize and hope the moderators will move it but referencing Dewey12 and going to gun shows brought up some things to my mind that often bothered me over the years of collecting and shooting.
One used to see a generous amount of respect...not just the seller or buyer, but for the piece of art (sometimes) and history that firearms represent. Everyone I know desires the proverbial NIB at or as close to, the original MSRP as they can get. Every seller wants top dollar for the piece he/she is selling. I for one do not mind this as that is what negotiation is all about, and in the end the price will always be what a willing seller gets from a willing buyer, but I still relish the respect on all sides.
If I am selling (and I am not a full FFL, just a C&R) I always have a clean 100% cotton T-shirt, a bore light, strong LED light, a magnifying glass, gun rug or protective mat of some sort, and a good small tool kit with assorted hollow ground screwdrivers, and of course (mandatory)....a pair of cotton gloves. Do I use (and need) all of this stuff?.....YES....whether buyer or seller, if I handle that K22, or that RM, or Colt Python, or even a 60% WWII 1911A1, I am going to handle it with the gloves, ASK beforehand if I may field strip, check bore, even draw the hammer back, check serial number, look for the hidden proofs, etc., and when I'm done I always re-assemble, wiping as I go, with a final buff before setting it back on sellers table, desk or even truck bed.
Do I look like a dang nerd or weirdo?.....Probably so to a lot of people, but two (2) of my best buys ( a 15-3 4", K38 - 8/38") were obtained at less than the initial asking price I feel because the seller said he had never seen anyone handle the piece as I did or even ask any question other than "Is that price the lowest you'll take". Were the pieces overpriced to begin with? Maybe, maybe not.....I was looking for those in particular and in an acceptable (to me) condition, and I gave them no less amount of respect than I would expect a buyer to grant me if I were selling.
When I do sell (seldom but I did let go of the 98% Python and a 90% Nazi Black Widow Luger), and in both cases I felt real respect from the competing buyers and their upfront questions and treatment while handling my guns....so I chopped some bucks after we agreed as I felt both guns were going to "live on in history" and not get Cerakoted, chopped up, rail optics or some other stuff that I just can't fathom at my stage of collecting and shooting.
Anyway forum............just another 2 cents worth.