I tend to use Bullseye, Unique and 2400 for all my handgun needs.
45 ACP 230 grain 40 cal 165 grain and 9mm 115 grain?
I would look at CFEpistol, Universal, and possibly Blue Dot. I do not load 40 Cal but I do load 10mm and all 3 work in a 10mm, 45, and 9mm.