There are a couple of things going on here. First of all, because of the elasticity of the aluminum frame and the steel barrel, an overtorqued barrel puts a heavy and constant load on the external threads of the barrel and the internal threads of the frame. This is in and of itself not a problem. The two machine elements, barrel and frame, are in an equilibrium situation. When you fire the revolver, however, other forces come into play. Due to internal pressure of the gas behind the bullet, the barrel instantaneously expands both lengthwise and in outside diameter, especially at the portion which is threaded and tightly fitting within the frame. Now if the frame is already stressed to near the elastic limit, gradually microscopic cracks may begin to form at the barrel/frame interface. These, once started, are prone to increase every time the piece is fired. Eventually, a macro crack forms at a point of maximum stress and the frame fails.
The barrel also expands due to heat of firing, and this is not instantaneous but continues as more rounds are fired. Now the heat transfer from the barrel to the frame also causes the frame to expand. Aluminum expands with heat at roughly twice the rate of steel so this, in theory, should relieve the stress at the barrel/frame interface somewhat. However, if the barrel is tightly torqued in the frame, there is a pulling back and forth at the threads as the barrel and frame expand at different rates with the heat of firing. This is something that does not happen with a steel barrel threaded into a steel frame, as both elements expand with heat at about the same rate.
Sorry, I'm not trying to be a know it all. I was originally trained as an engineer and do understand some of the failure mechanisms both in firearms and other machinery.