Pugsters

Man, I am sorry you lost your Pugster. That's a hard piece of business that a dog man has to do every 12 years, more or less, depending on our care and luck. I feel you, as I remember our last talk, Hope and I...
That day's long talk, as well a few years ago,


Here, I found this not to long ago:
Some of you, particularly those who think they have recently lost a dog to 'death', don't really understand this. I've had no desire to explain, but won't be around forever and must.

Dogs never die. They don't know how to. They get tired, and very old, and their bones hurt. Of course they don't die. If they did they would not want to always go for a walk, even long after their old bones say: 'No, no, not a good idea. Let's not go for a walk.' Nope, dogs always want to go for a walk. They might get one step before their aging tendons collapse them into a heap on the floor, but that's what dogs are. They walk.

It's not that they dislike your company. On the contrary, a walk with you is all there is. Their boss, and the cacaphonic symphony of odor that the world is. Cat poop, another dog's mark, a rotting chicken bone (exultation), and you. That's what makes their world perfect, and in a perfect world death has no place.

However, dogs get very very sleepy. That's the thing, you see. They don't teach you that at the fancy university where they explain about quarks, gluons, and Keynesian economics. They know so much they forget that dogs never die. It's a shame, really. Dogs have so much to offer and people just talk a lot.

When you think your dog has died, it has just fallen asleep in your heart. And by the way, it is wagging its tail madly, you see, and that's why your chest hurts so much and you cry all the time. Who would not cry with a happy dog wagging its tail in their chest. Ouch! Wap wap wap wap wap, that hurts. But they only wag when they wake up. That's when they say: 'Thanks Boss! Thanks for a warm place to sleep and always next to your heart, the best place.'
When they first fall asleep, they wake up all the time, and that's why, of course, you cry all the time. Wap, wap, wap. After a while they sleep more. (remember, a dog while is not a human while. You take your dog for walk, it's a day full of adventure in an hour. Then you come home and it's a week, well one of your days, but a week, really, before the dog gets another walk. No WONDER they love walks.)

Anyway, like I was saying, they fall asleep in your heart, and when they wake up, they wag their tail. After a few dog years, they sleep for longer naps, and you would too. They were a GOOD DOG all their life, and you both know it. It gets tiring being a good dog all the time, particularly when you get old and your bones hurt and you fall on your face and don't want to go outside to pee when it is raining but do anyway, because you are a good dog. So understand, after they have been sleeping in your heart, they will sleep longer and longer.

But don't get fooled. They are not 'dead.' There's no such thing, really. They are sleeping in your heart, and they will wake up, usually when you're not expecting it. It's just who they are.

I feel sorry for people who don't have dogs sleeping in their heart. You've missed so much. Excuse me, I have to go cry now."
 
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Im so sorry for your loss Phil. I saw the title to your thread and immediately thought the worst. I knew Pugster was getting up there in years. I feel like I got to know her over the years from your posts.
 
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you enjoy all the memories from all of the good times you had, the talks you had and the hugs. It is very hard for people without dogs to understand. The bond is closer than people can imagine when you get one of those looks from your best friend. How they always seem to know how you are feeling. Sorry again
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. These four-legged wonders become part of the family. We had to do the same for our newfie a little more than a year ago and I still miss the big lug.
 
June of 2010 that Megs passed. I still have an empty place in my heart for her. But we had just started "watching" Erma for a friend, and 5 years later we are still "watching" her. She will never be Megs, and it is a slightly different kind of love, but I'm afraid that only another soulmate dog can alleviate such a great loss. My condolences.
 
Phil, I am so sorry for your loss. We love our dogs just as family and your love of Pugsters showed in the frequent pictures and posts including her. There are no words at a time like this but I do offer my sincere condolences and may God bestow His tender mercies and grant you peace.

You guys will meet again, Pugsters has just gone to the Rainbow Bridge first but he will wait for you patiently. RIP Pugsters
 
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Sorry to hear that you lost a best friend. I know my condolences aren't much, but I'm glad she no longer has to suffer. I can't even begin to imagine how heartbreaking it was to see her in IC. :(
 
Sad news Phil, very sorry to hear about Pugsters' passing...
 
Dogs can be good pals. We hate to see them go. I like the little ones, because they supposedly last longer, but all of ours tend to go at 13 no matter how well we care for them. Sorry for your loss. I still miss my once in a lifetime schnauzer ten years gone, but our newer dogs are nice and fun in their own way.
 
I am hurting for you today, Phil. What a sweet looking face. I hope that you can focus on the great memories you have and that you can find acceptance and peace of mind. God BLess...
 
Nuthin' hurts like losing a long time pet.

I've been through it with horses, dogs, cats, even 4H & FFA Steers.

There's gonna be a stampede at the bridge when I cross over that great divide.

As I have said many times, when you're ready, there's another pooch out desperately looking for some family to love.

A new one will never replace Pugster, but it will wiggle it's way into a special place in your heart of it's own.
 
The bond between man and dog is a very strong one. When I lose a dog, a piece of me goes with them. I am sorry for your loss.
 
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