Since 1972 I have broken several decapping pins (I just kept a ready supply on hand). Some have been my fault for not properly inspecting the brass before proceeding (foreign matter, tumbling media, etc). At least one was a seriously undersized flash hole in a case (seized the decapper pin and pulled it out of the decapper stem, broke when I tried to pull it out). A couple have been due to off-center flash holes. Manufacturing tolerances are what they are, and the ammo makers aren't producing ammo to be reloaded (although I'm sure they have figured out that it happens).
I have also resized and decapped thousands of military cases (.45, .38 Spl, .5.56mm, 7.62mm, .30-06) with crimped primers, and never had a problem doing so.
Over the years I developed my own routine for reloading. I no longer use reloading die decappers or neck expansion buttons. I decap as a separate operation and use Lyman M-dies for precise neck expansion without overly working the brass.
For decapping I have been using the old Lee Loader decapping rod and base (purchased new in 1972 with the Lee Loader tool set, $7.49). Couple of years ago I busted the decapping pin, contacted Lee Manufacturing, and they sent me a new one within a week at no charge. I bought another as a back-up.