I have a certain percentage of VA disability. They send me a very nice check every month, rain or shine.
I had to fill out some papers, and if I recall right it was only two or three pages, take those and my DD214 to the VA and meet with someone, maybe called a counselor who read them over, and that was it.
Within 6 weeks I got the first check.
During the 6 weeks, I was given a complete physical, had a Primary Care physician assigned to me, and was scheduled for my next appointment a few months later.
Perhaps it is because we have two VA hospitals here (we have sooooo many retired vets here), but I don't get the problems you guys have with getting VA services.
All you have to do is write your congressman and tell him/her that they won't help you. Include copies of your paperwork and DD214 and sit back and wait.
As to the questions about guns, etc., my wife told me tonight she expects they will have to ask those questions. She has a number of standard questions she has to ask patients. Most are medical questions, some deal with PTSD and other things. She simply tells the patient, when she gets to questions not directly related to their health problems, that she has some questions she is required to ask. She simply asks and then types whatever the answer is into the records.
So, if a patient says "Yes, no, or none of your business" she just records the answer. Of course, if they ask for help with whatever the issue is, she does.
As to PTSD, I was sorta chastised here a year or so ago by at least one poster, when I said I would never reveal anything like that to a doc at the VA or anywhere else. I was told the "law" kept "them" from reporting it to the Feds.
Hey, I'm a lawyer and I know, from years of bitter (sometimes) experience, that the legislature or congress can change a particular law tomorrow and make it exactly 180 degrees from what it is today.
Uhhh, looks like something similar may happen in the near future, huh? I hope not, but....
Now if you have PTSD, and it is affecting your life and its quality, then you should get help regardless of a possible future effect on anything.
But, I am not experiencing life-affecting problems with anything, (certainly not any PTSD in my life

) so I won't tell anyone anything that I think might come back to bite me in the hindside later.
Again, if you think the VA is jerking you around, remember, that is what God made your congressman for, to fix problems with federal workers jerking you around.
Bob