Best Advice Posted Yet
I think you have the best advice posted yet. I was at an all women's self defense class. The people were learning how if another girl were to pull your hair, don't pull back and leave your head at the attackers control, push forward into their body and jam a hand up the nose.
While standing there, it was apparent that everything learned was not going to be remembered. If you're concerned with self defense and don't do force-on-force practice, not amount of technical jargon in a book or lack of regular practiced behavior is going to save you. You need to become "automatic" at what you practice.
I don't see myself having time to sure on an optic on my own gun. I hear something.... let me just locate that gun, also turn on the optic to approach the situation and respond.
Virtually all civilian armed self-defense encounters occur at distances and at speeds where threat focused shooting is best and I think neither the RMR or laser are necessary or will be of much benefit in such instances.
If you are physically able, my recommendation is to participate in a FoF/Force-on-Force class. I think this will give you a much better understanding of the dynamics. Static range shooting really isn't sufficient.
You can analyze, research and study the issue endlessly, but it is difficult to grasp unless you actually do it. FoF is simply the best simulation we currently have. It's like trying to understand what the best techniques are and how to apply them, how to incorporate footwork, timing etc. in a fist-fight without ever having been in one, or participated in any type of sparring or contact/force drills. To use another analogy, prior to the MMA/UFC, there were various opinions as to what art(s)would generally work best in a NHB cage fight. Opinions were convoluted and varied so drastically because so many arts were based on theory, adapted for different goals/purposes and not proven nor throughly pressure tested in that specific environment. Twenty some odd years later, everyone is pretty much on the same page. Defensive shooting is really no different. To determine what's most effective, we must simulate the conditions of our goal(civilian defensive shooting, not range, target or sport shooing) as best as we can and see what holds up and works well when pressure tested in that specific context.
I think you have the best advice posted yet. I was at an all women's self defense class. The people were learning how if another girl were to pull your hair, don't pull back and leave your head at the attackers control, push forward into their body and jam a hand up the nose.
While standing there, it was apparent that everything learned was not going to be remembered. If you're concerned with self defense and don't do force-on-force practice, not amount of technical jargon in a book or lack of regular practiced behavior is going to save you. You need to become "automatic" at what you practice.
I don't see myself having time to sure on an optic on my own gun. I hear something.... let me just locate that gun, also turn on the optic to approach the situation and respond.