I'm sure there is all kinds of gunsmith mythology about why screws shear, but there is no debate among engineers, fastener makers and SAE. Screws shear due to over tightening or separating forces that exceed the rated shear strength. Or, if they are faulty. The second is ruled out by the weight of the optic. The third by the quality of the maker.
But you are right, I should have mentioned to use the manufacturers recommendation. 18-24 inch pounds is the common optic advice when that number is unknown.
Of course anyone is free to take anyone's advice and we agree that there is a lot of cow poop on the internet. We agree that due diligence is always required. We just don't agree on where that smell is coming from.