Hi, Rick!
Welcome to the forum!
I'm not sure I understand the first part of your question.
The guide rod is not supposed to be bent and it is not usual. If it is bent you are right to replace it.
If by "shock absorber" you mean some kind of plastic recoil buffer, that is not a stock part and if your recoil springs are healthy (replaced every 3000-5000 rounds) then recoil buffers are a waste of money.
The "white button" underneath the slide is the "ejector/depressor plunger". Without going into too much detail, it's part of the magazine disconnect safety system (the pistol won't fire without a magazine in place). It gets worn looking from sliding over the ejector, but they never seem to wear out.
The only plastic part of the mag release is the button itself. Unfortunately it is not replaceable with a metal part without replacing
all of the mag release parts AND re-machining the frame.
Fortunately, the plastic mag release button rarely fails. The button itself is a "single use" part and if you pry it off it should be replaced with a new button.
Overall, the 457 is a terrific compact .45 with only one drawback IMO, the rather thin "bluing/blackening" of its carbon steel slide. It seems to rust easily in a humid environment without regular protective attention. Keep it wiped down with decent oil/protectant and it should be fine.
Keep it lubed and clean according to the Owner's Manual, feed it good quality ammunition, replace the recoil and mag springs every 3000-5000 rounds, and fire it with a solid hold and a locked wrist and your Model 457 will serve you and your descendants well for generations.
John