Today was the day for my Lab,Bear, he had to be put down.

Aloha,

Always hard to loose a family member.

If the female does not know for sure that Bear passed, she will always look for him.
After we took our #2 dog in to be put down and she didn't come home with us, the other 2 dogs were at a loss. We had her cremated. When we brought her ashes home, we showed the urn to the 2 remaining dogs. They seemed to know and understand what happened. Same when my Dad passed. We again showed them the urn.
Dogs understand much more than we give them credit for.
If you have something to show the other dog of Bear's passing, she will understand and be at Peace.
The Wife had custom Doggie urns made for our 2 that crossed the Rainbow Bridge.
 
Man, I feel for you....

But you know, while you are crying there is a little tickle of joy in knowing that you and Bear spent a lot of time together and those years were so happy, and how privileged you were to know such a "Good Dog". "Good Dog" is a medal that dogs and their owners aspire to, it is earned while they are alive but is officially awarded posthumously. It is the highest honor achievable.
 
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Sorry for your loss. You did the right thing. Hard, but right. They say time heals all pain, I had to put my best friend down over 3 years ago and I still tear up when I think of him. Remember the good times and know you will see him again, some day.
Semper Fi
Smitty
 
Probably one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I feel for you, pard.

As you know, there's nothing like a dog to give unconditional love, and while no other dog will be able to take his place, you'll eventually be able to make an additional place in your heart and home for another who will also be a loyal companion.

Like Iggy...been there, done that. They've all been special and will never be forgotten.

about 6 years ago we went thru the same thing with an old golden we had go from a rescue group years before who made it to around 14 yrs of age, and like others have posted I too just sat and wept in the vet's office. Said that was it, not going thru that again.
Well some months later, my wife and I started getting the bug to have another canine companion in the home. So we adopted an Aussie. She is part of the family, we give her a good loving home and she gives us unconditional love right back. Cuz that's what a good pup does.
 
Sorry for your loss. As far as I am concerned, the number of people who are or could be worth as much as my pets are and have been is trivial. What matters now is that you gave each other 13 good years.

Hmm. Dusty in here.
 
Thinking of my Lab mix also called Bear. He is 14 this month and we are week to week with him now. Not looking forward to that trip to the vet. My thoughts are surely with you today.
 
Sorry to hear about your buddy. I lost mine in May, 10 year old mini schnauzer named Ozzy. I'm not ashamed to say I cried like a baby, and still tear up looking at pictures. He was my constant companion for 10 years, and I'm still kind of lost without him. We took him outside, spent about 3 hours with him in the fresh air and sunshine, then let him go. I wrapped him and gave him to the vet for cremation, and we have his ashes. This is the 1st time I've been able to post this, so I know your pain. Hang in there buddy...

We have his daughter who went through a bad bout of pacreatitis in Dec. and we thought we were going to lose her. She's diabetic now and hanging in there, but they day will come, and I'll lose it all over again. Pray to GOD we get to see them again in our next journey...
 
I'm sure sorry for your loss, I still grieve over my sheltie, Hope, that has been gone over a year. I believe that we will see them again some day...

THE HOUSE DOG'S GRAVE
By Robinson Jeffers


I've changed my ways a little; I cannot now
Run with you in the evenings along the shore,
Except in a kind of dream; and you,
If you dream a moment,
You see me there.

So leave awhile the paw-marks on the front door
Where I used to scratch to go out or in,
And you'd soon open; leave on the kitchen floor
The marks of my drinking-pan.
I cannot lie by your fire as I used to do
On the warm stone,
Nor at the foot of your bed; no,
All the nights through I lie alone.
But your kind thought has laid me less than six feet
Outside your window where firelight so often plays,
And where you sit to read—
And I fear often grieving for me—
Every night your lamplight lies on my place.
You, man and woman, live so long, it is hard
To think of you ever dying.
A little dog would get tired, living so long.
I hope that when you are lying
Under the ground like me your lives will appear
As good and joyful as mine. No, dears, that's too much hope:
You are not so well cared for as I have been.
And never have known the passionate undivided
Fidelities that I knew.
Your minds are perhaps too active, too many-sided...
But to me you were true.

You were never masters, but friends. I was your friend.
I loved you well, and was loved. Deep love endures
To the end and far past the end. If this is my end,
I am not lonely. I am not afraid. I am still yours.
 
As puppies they live to play. But soon they will become the tireless partners and patient companions who live only to please. They will dive into impossible covers for us all day long and willingly make retrieves that are longer than the should be. So to all the great dogs we've known and loved we wish soft beds, warm fireplaces, and good hunting.
 
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like Bear was a great friend. There's lots of good dog folks here that have been through the same thing.
I've posted a few times here about my old bullmastiff, Angus, he turned 14 back in September. He's still with me but it won't be too long, he's wearing down, doesn't have the muscle he used too, his hips are bad, and he can hardly hear. He's still good for a short walk around the yard now and then, though, if the suns out and it's not too cold, once he gets loosened up he's still got a little bit of skip in his step and I can still see a much younger dog in his cloudy eyes and greying fur. It's going to kill me when he's gone.
 

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