Governor. Perfect nightstand gun . . .
I've let my wife try my 686+, kimber K6s, 19-3 6", Taurus .38, and Ruger Vaquero. The shorter guns are too snappy for her. The bigger guns are too long and heavy.
I *think* that a 4" model 67 might be the ticket. It's smaller than the 686 frame yet big enough to reduce recoil. With some hornady or federal reduced recoil, I'm hoping it will work for her.
I've narrowed my focus rather drastically as I want a revolver (limited chance of malfunction) and I want adjustable night sights so that I can get it right for whatever round we end up on with her.
The only night sights I can find that are adjustable are the mepro for k-frames and for some of the rugers so that limits my choices.
The plan is a 67 4" with some good hogue grips that she can hold on to (she's tiny - 5' 95 pounds), mepro night sights adjusted for her and a high-quality trigger job and spring set to make pull as light and smooth as possible while still remaining reliable. Ideally a 3" would probably be the best overall but there are limited choices in 3" with adjustable sights where an aftermarket is available.
Beyond the 67, are there other options (new only I want a warranty) that I'm missing here?