Unfortunately, more sad pet news

[CatSnipah]

For those of you who have followed the other recent threads about pet health issues and loss, you've probably seen me post about my Dexter cat, who has been suffering from heart failure.

Today, Aug 28th, my grey furry pal earned his angel wings. He had declined significantly over the past few weeks, and I couldn't stand to see him suffer any longer. While he might have still had some time left, with us, it would have been of low quality. He's been there for me every single day for the past 11 years, and I was not about to allow him to suffer and decline any longer.

This may sound cliche, but this was literally the hardest decision I've ever had to make. I nearly changed my mind at the last minute, but talking with the vet, reasonably knowing that he was suffering from terminal heart failure, we made the right decision to let him go.

I can't tell you how much I'm hurting right now. I'm devastated. That furball literally kept me going during some very difficult times in my life. I literally have tears streaming down my face as I write this, but I find it somewhat therapeutic to share how much I loved my little companion.

He was the best friend I could have asked for. And that little bugger picked ME out all those years ago - by reaching out of the cage and grabbing my jacket as I was looking at another cat.

I'm thankful for the years I had with him, but am saddened knowing that I'll not get to see him and his goofy mannerisms again when I wake up tomorrow morning.

It all just seems so surreal right now.

If you are or have ever been a pet friend, I know you understand. I'm not one to ask for prayers, but my wife and I could sure use anything anyone can spare at this time.

Thanks for letting me share this with you.

 

[kozmic]

It's is never easy to euthanize a pet. There's a point however as your pet's caretaker, it becomes necessary to end their suffering and preserve the dignity that they deserve. It stops being about you and is solely about them.

I hope that you will find comfort in the memories you shared and the companionship that Dexter gave you.

 

[S&W45Colt]

Catsnipah,

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I just got my little guy back after three days at the Vet's due to his eating something he should not have. I wasn't good for awhile, we were worried about liver damage, he had to have IV's etc. My point is, I felt a little of what you are feeling. Prayers sent for you and the wife. I'm so sorry you lost your little buddy, when the time's right, adopt another one in memory of him.

God Bless and comfort you and your wife.

 

[THEWELSHM]

Prayers sent, I had to put my dog Shadow to sleep he got cancer and after my son was killed I had a heart to heart with him and asked him to give me just 6 more months. Almost to the day and after he had been swimming he barked at me at 11.00 pm at night, " the load up command" he wanted to go in the truck and get it done. That was the most peaceful thing I think I have ever seen. He went to sleep 2nd shot slipped away. I like you had another piece of me taken that night but I thank God for the privilege of owning a loyal pet. May God find you comfort in your loss and smiles in your reminisce.


thewelshm

 

[Iggy]

Sorry for your loss. The greatest gift of love we can give a critter is to prevent them from suffering. You gave him a good life and he returned your efforts mutiple times over.

Your last gift is the toughest one we face, but one we must.

Too bad we can't do the same thing for some of our human loved ones when things go bad.

 

[shouldazagged]

I hurt for you. The grief is terrible in situations like this. But it's part of the contract we make with them when we take them into our lives. If their time comes before ours (and I'm selfish enough to hope I die before my beloved little Moose does), we owe them peace and an end to suffering.

Prayers and empathy coming your way.

 

[bamabiker]

I am sorry for your loss.
One of our dogs is laying on the floor beside me right now. Lucy is about 16 years old and having age related problems. I know the time is coming and already dread it.
I will remember you and your wife in my prayers.

 

[ralph7]

Been where you are and although I am somewhat ashamed to admit it, me putting down my beloved black lab in '04 was more painful than the loss of my mother to Alzheimer's.

Pets have that kind of emotional bond that is undeniable.

 

[carpriver]

I am sorry for your loss, there are never any words that can take away the feeling of loss.

 

[Biginge]

CatSnipah,

There is nothing but time that will lessen the feelings you and your wife are having just now. It is a terrible feeling, and I have known it on several occasions. You guys did what is right for Dexter and all of us chiming in here saying that does not make your day any easier I am sure. However, we have all been there, just like you are right now. We feel your pain, loss, utter despair, and all the other bad emotions you are harboring right now.

Ole Dexter is waiting for ya on the rainbow bridge. When the time comes, and I know it is not now, you may want to look for another critter to fill this enormous void. I really think Dexter would want you to do that. A new kitty won't take his place, that can't be done. But he may just fill another part of ya'lls heart that could use some more love from another pet.

Only the best to you and yours. I will remember you in my prayers. I have been in your shoes too many times and it ain't a good place to be right now. God Bless you both.

 

[DeathGrip]

I feel your pain. You did what I and many here have done. It shows how much you cared for him.

I pray for comfort for you and your wife.

It took me 10 years and 2 more dogs to again eat a treat that I shared nightly with my last dog.

 

[sgt.207]

Sorry for your loss. I had to put down my 12 year old yellow lab on May 31 of this year. It was one of the hardest things i've ever had to do, but was the right thing to do for him.

We will pray for you guys.

 

[pawncop]

We grieve with you, but not as you are because your loss is so personal.

My prayer is for your peace and comfort, and that Dexter will find the Rainbow Bridge quickly.

 

[m l mosley]

Sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[tlay]

You have probably read my post about my cat Cassie. She is still at the vet and I still don't know what to do. My heart breaks for you. I know how much our pets affect our lives. Just sit tonight in a quiet place and remember all of the smiles and laughter your cat brought you. In your heart he is not gone. If you truly believe you will see your cat again.

 

[gdnagle]

Sorry for your loss at least there is no pain left for him.

I'm sure most have read the Rainbow Bridge poem and with all the four legged family leaving us here it is.

The Rainbow Bridge Poem - A Pet Loss Poem

 

[badge107]

CatSnipah, I know exactly how you feel. Your Dexter Cat sounds like a great little friend. Prayers are sent you and your wife's way. May God bless ya'll and ease your grief. I lost Jack Sunday and am still crying and grieving and will probably do so for some time to come. Again, bless you and your wife.

 

[timn8er]

Catsnipah, Thank YOU for sharing with us. I lost my best friend Otto, I think its been about fifteen years now, & not a day goes by without me thinking about him. He was a crazy dog, & we meshed well. I send prayers for you & yours, and I wish Dexter God Speed. If there is a Rainbow Bridge, I hope he's waiting for you someday.

 

[Pop's2]

I will say a prayer for you and your wife tonight as well.

 

[the ringo kid]

Sorry for your loss. Earlier this week, a stray Cat ive been feeding-was killed by a few large dogs roaming the neighborhood. That cat was a sweetheart and loved people--loved to snake around your ankles-purr-friendly as heck--only to find him lying on MY front lawn.

I certainly fee the pain of your loss.