Several years ago, I gifted a handgun to a relative in NC (I'm in TN). I expected to have to go through a local FFL (as Federal law suggests). The local Sheriff's office said they were allowed to authorize the transfer. My relative just had to do the paperwork for the state required permit to purchase. My relative has her handgun, and a little piece of paper from them saying she was allowed by the state to purchase (or receive it as a gift in this particular case) from me.
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Still doesn't sound correct to me, but it was cheaper than going through a dealer.
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It wasn't correct. I'm guessing the Sheriff wasn't an FFL nor was your relative in the other State.
Transfer of a handgun between two people from different States must go thru an FFL at the recv'ing end where a 4473/NICS is completed.
About the only time that is not done is if the gun is left to a person by bequeath. I think the gun can go directly to the other person.
But lots of things like this happen especially within familys & circles of close friends.
The gov't has their hand in everything. Plus they change their mind a lot.
What is OK one day may not be the next.
We (NYS) had at one time our NYS P/P could be used in place of the NICS check.
That was a convenient thing.
Then the ATF decided that too many people were obtaining falsified P/P's
from some County Clerks Offices simply walking them out the back door all typed up with the Official seal crimped into it.
Also too many actual P/P holders were getting things on their record while still holding a P/P.
Not checking the actual NICS system during a sale,,the things like a felonys, domestic abuse assaults, etc were never known about by an FFL making a sale.
So the use of the P/P in place of the NICS check was taken away.
Even before NICS we had put in place that all sales/transferes between private partys taking place at GunShows must go thru an FFL. (since 1991,but no one really bothered with it)
Then after NICS came to be, that was expanded to ALL sales betw private partys no matter where they take place have to go thru an FFL (The SAFE Act).
..and No,,you will never get 'The Good Old Days back again,,,,Never'