Is it just me or are the bullets seated with the cannelure completely above the top of the case? The photos are blurry but if that is in fact the case and you are trying to crimp into an area of the bullet with no cannelure, you will buckle the case.
I would start over with a properly sized, expanded and flared case.
1. completely raise the seating stem.
2. raise the die body until it is nowhere near touching the case mouth with a case in the shell holder and ram raised completely. At least two full turns above the point where the die body touches the case mouth.
3. place bullet in the case & raise ram completely. Then lower the seating stem only until it just touches the bullet.
4. lower ram and then adjust the seating stem only down to seat the bullet into the case. Go one full turn at a time, alternately lowering ram to inspect the progress, adjusting the stem only downward and raising the ram. Repeat until the bullet is seated to a point where the top of the case is near the top of the cannelure. DO NOT take any COAL dimension into consideration-you want the top of the case mouth near the top of but not above the cannelure.
5. after the bullet is fully seated as described in step 4, lower the ram and run the seating stem all the way up again.
6. Now, raise the ram with the case w/ seated bullet completely to the up position. screw the whole die body without touching the seating stem down until it touches the case mouth, then lower the ram and turn the die body down one half turn. Raise the ram fully, then lower and inspect the crimp. If more crimp is needed, screw the die body down another half turn, raise the ram and then lower and inspect. Remember to make no adjustment to the seating stem. Keep repeating until the necessary crimp is obtained-then, with the ram down, lock the die body in place.
7. Raise the ram with completed round completely and, with it up , screw in the seating stem until it touches the bullet. The die body should not be moving while you adjust the seating stem.
If the cases are buckling on straight walled pistol cases, you are crimping with the case mouth outside the cannelure (or crimp groove on a cast bullet), crimping too much or pushing the bullet down while the case is crimped. Do not fool around with any kind of marker, etc.. Instead think about how both parts of the die work and how the adjustments you are making affect the work you are performing. You need to resign yourself to the fact that you will need to readjust the dies when switching from .357's to .38 specials and after you learn how the adjustments work, it will become 2nd nature to you. The Lyman reloading manuals used to have excellent drawings showing sectional views of the dies during the loading process and these made understanding that process quite easy. I do not know if the latest versions still contain this info or not.
Bruce