What is the most "pleasant" weight bullet to shoot from a full 357 Mag Snub?
OK, none of them.
But assuming the rounds are loaded to max recommended loads with whiz bang Magnum powder and primers, out of say a M 640, 2- 1/8" barrel.
The trade off of a lighter bullet say 110, 125 going faster or a heavier 158 gr going a bit slower.
I usually only shoot 158 gr so have not compared to lighter bullets and factory loads are too expensive to experiment with.
Is there a real difference in felt recoil between them or is it not that noticeable a difference??
OK, none of them.

But assuming the rounds are loaded to max recommended loads with whiz bang Magnum powder and primers, out of say a M 640, 2- 1/8" barrel.
The trade off of a lighter bullet say 110, 125 going faster or a heavier 158 gr going a bit slower.
I usually only shoot 158 gr so have not compared to lighter bullets and factory loads are too expensive to experiment with.
Is there a real difference in felt recoil between them or is it not that noticeable a difference??