What is wrong with you?

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During most of my youth people were asking me that. The nuns daily beatings over writing left handed: "What is wrong with you!?" Fights, assorted scrapes, car wrecks, general drunken tomfoolery, every time: "What is wrong with you?" It's been over 20 years since anybody's asked me that (except for the wife of course) and I've noticed it ain't just me.
Today I decided that even in the heat, it was time to shoot. Nothing fancy, a .22 (34-1 2"), a 38 (67) and my carry gun (6906). Got the range all to myself and after awhile I am settling down (some kinda electrical problem with the truck giving me every warning light flashing but didn't strand me, thank YouKnowWho). After a half hour, a guy with a kid about 10 comes in and asks "What lane?" I says "Pick one." About 10 minutes later he comes up behind me with a Glock 17 rental. No panic, calmly: "Can I help you?" Him: "How do I load this?" Me: "Have you ever handled a gun before?" Him: "Oh yes, shotguns hunting with my dad as a kid." About then I packed my kit and went down to his lane and proceeded to start yelling the 4 rules. He had his phones off in the range. Me: "Put them on, I will yell!." Showed him how to load the one mag and to release the slide by grasping it, pull it back and letting it go. I fired the first shot and he finished the mag. Struggled mightily to reload but he got it and emptied another. Kid's turn and even though he was 3 feet low at 10 ft, the grin was priceless. Now the kid goes out and mom comes in. I was ready for the "4 rules lecture" again but she was all about "smartphone pictures and Facebook" so I took it as my cue to vacate. In my head I heard the question "What's wrong with you?" 40 years ago there was no way you could go to a range with zero experience, get handed a firearm and a poly bag of cartridges. Even in NJ there was always somebody around to get a newbie started. I understand business is business but really:
1) Who hands a gun and ammo to an untrained person and says: "Enjoy."
2) Who (that has zero experience) brings a 10 yr old to share this experience?
3) As the spousal unit of an untrained person with a live Glock (who has had a 20 minute lesson by a "range codger") is it that vitally important to "Facebook this moment" rather than focus on the task at hand?
We have created a completely disconnected world and we are only aware when something awful happens because we are disconnected.
Rant over and I apologize in advance for the preceding text wall. Joe
 
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Dick, you are always a bright spot in this world. Sort of like the big red ones at the bottom of a really difficult ski slope. Hope to see you in Lakeland next month. Joe
 
Did she want to shoot of just take pics? Maybe all she want to do is take a pic and has no interest in shooting. Why is doing that wrong? I can see your point if she had the gun pointing at the target with one hand and the phone in the other. Yea then I agree. But what's the big deal if all she wanted was a photo? Guns font just shoot themselves when photographed.

When my friends and I go to the range sometimes the girls come along too. All they do is take pics. Can they accidentally kill someone with a smart phone standing 10ft away from the closest firearm? I doubt it

So what would a gunshop do? Not sell him a gun? Should shops without a range just not exist or should they discriminate as to who should be allowed to buy a gun? This kinda goes back to the right to defend oneself. Who dictates what is enough training before one can actually purchase a gun?
 
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It's one of those things. I grew up around firearms. Operating a gun is second nature to me, even one I've never held before. When I take friends out who haven't shot much I struggle to have the patience to teach them. I've seen a grown man try to load a clip into a garand with the rounds perpendicular to the barrel.
 
Feel free to flame, but you can't buy a car from a dealer, and drive it off the lot yourself, unless you produce a Gov't issued photo ID that claims you passed a proficiency test for driving......

Not saying it should be a law by any means, but some sort of first time buyer/shooter program might not be the worst idea.... They used to teach basic familiarity with all kinds of firearms in the Gun Safety programs taught way back when, not sure what they do now.....

I'll head down to my bunker now, flame away.....
 
Im glad you took time to show the kid how to work the Glock. Highlife of his summer. To the kids at school he says, yeah I went to the gun range and this old guy showed me how to work the gun! But he didn't lay it side ways like they do on u tube.
 
>2) Who (that has zero experience) brings a 10 yr old to share this experience?<

Just about anybody.

"I think this will be fun. I will take my child along so he can enjoy it with me."

Golf, bowling, canoeing, parasailing, bungee-jumping. They've never done it before, and have no idea in the world what they are doing, but it looks like fun and they take the kid for a little father/son bonding.

This "looks like fun" thing just happened to be shooting.
 
Well I for one salute you for helping a person that truly needed help and he did have the cajones to ask. Seeing the kid smile was definitely a bright spot in your day as it would have been in anyone's. As for the lady and her pictures, well an awful lot of people today center their life around facebook and such and I won't pretend to understand it. I remember my mother always wanted to take pictures of any get together that we had and she was really bad at it, usually cutting off at least part of everyone's head in them.

As for them sending him in to the range with a gun and ammo completely ignorant of what he was doing maybe he talked a good enough show to get by out front. Who knows.

As for being told "What is wrong with you" man I wish I had a nickle for everytime someone said that to me over the years. I could probably buy S&W by now.
 
What IS wrong with you?

1) I still write with my left hand. Sister Elvira punched me closed fist, in the head, and knocked me out in the 5 th grade. Maybe that's what's wrong with me.
2) I can't ignore people in need. I own a pickup truck. Recently a co worker bought a freezer from a neighbor and wanted it brought to her house. I'm 62 and I loaded it by myself, took it to her house (70 mi RT) and put it in her garage. maybe that's what's wrong with me.
3) I ask "Him" for guidance every day and sometimes I fall so far short I feel like I didn't get it. Maybe that's what's wrong with me.
4) I was born either 100 years too late or too early, maybe that's what's wrong with me. Joe
 
Nothing wrong with you it is the world of social media. Some folks want their 15 minutes of fame in hopes the can get on TV. The other part is the lack of good common sense which I see everyday no matter the setting. It was good of you to help, the boy will remember this for a long time.
 
1) I still write with my left hand. Sister Elvira punched me closed fist, in the head, and knocked me out in the 5 th grade. Maybe that's what's wrong with me.
2) I can't ignore people in need. I own a pickup truck. Recently a co worker bought a freezer from a neighbor and wanted it brought to her house. I'm 62 and I loaded it by myself, took it to her house (70 mi RT) and put it in her garage. maybe that's what's wrong with me.
3) I ask "Him" for guidance every day and sometimes I fall so far short I feel like I didn't get it. Maybe that's what's wrong with me.
4) I was born either 100 years too late or too early, maybe that's what's wrong with me. Joe

Joe, you are just like my oldest boy, as he calls it, you are "unique". :D
 
There is nothing "wrong" with you, it's the rest of the world that is wrong....

(that's what I tell myself)
 
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