1. There is the feeling I see from some that if I have a CCW and a weapon I am secure.
2. This isn't completely true.
3. Without awareness and practicing avoidance you are still vulnerable to attack.
4. Vulnerable to prosecution for the misuse of a firearm.
5. Vulnerable to prosecution for assault with a deadly weapon.
6. Vulnerable to murder charges by the misuse of a firearm.
7. Vulnerable to be sued for damages suffered by a firearm discharge.
8. Vulnerable to losing your firearm.
9. Vulnerable to being killed by your own firearm.
To be secure involves much more than packing.
1. It involves be awareness of your surroundings.
2. It involves avoiding problems.
3. It involves using techniques like verbal judo to reduce the likelihood of a confrontation.
4. It involves knowing the self defense laws as it pertains to a firearm.
5. It involves trying to avoid a confrontation rather than confronting it.
6. It involves knowing what to do when confronted by the police after a shooting.
7. It involves knowing when to run even if you are packing.
8. It involves not isolating yourself.
9. It involves having a plan of what to do when faced with a possible assailant, whether the shooting will be seen as self defense, knowing what to say when you talk to the police, having self control to know when to stop defending yourself, knowing when to stop shooting so your actions are seen as assault and/or murder, knowing when you can shoot, etc.
10. You may protect your family but how is everybody going to feel if you go to far and end up in prison for years for excessive force and/or murder because you went to far.
People must realize there is no security in defending yourself and going to far. You accomplished the saying: "It is better to be tried by 12 then carried by 6" but your kids may grow up without a father.
Try being secure in the fact that when you do defend yourself that you don't orphan your kids, kill an innocent person, don't kill your children and/or your wife while trying to defend them, avoid a lawsuit, etc. There is no security for you and your family if you can't control your temper and emotions. Part of being secure is knowing that how you respond to a lethal threat in a way that won't put you behind bars, have you arrested, have to fight charges by the DA for murder and going to far.
What kind of security does it offer your kids and wife if their Dad doesn't follow the self defense laws and has to leave them for prison time. Did you really fully protect your family from harm? I don't know about any of you but to having to leave your family because you ignored the laws of self defense shows you partially protected them but you failed to protect them against the loss of a father.
A CCW, owning a firearm, and packing a firearm are only a part of what it takes to protect yourself. Another what if scenario I think not. Being secure also involves protecting your family and children.