Once and a while, I carry a full size 1911 or a Sig220. If I'll be standing or walking alot I use a Galco "Small of the back" holster. It rides mid back, butt up. It fits like a dream, and draws fantastic. I know some other companies make copies for alot less, but first class costs and knock-offs cost lives. I avoid the Middle of the back models (butt down), because you sweep yourself when drawing. My best suit is taylored to fit a Sig 228 IWB at 4 O-clock (Men's Wearhouse does this for free, call ahead and take the gun and holster with you). Whatever you carry your clothes need to fit properly. To quote ZZ Top, " Girls go crazy for a well dressed man." Bad fitting clothes, usually "print", a bad idea in all states and illeagle in some states. A friend of mine is not alot bigger than you and carries a M&P 9mm in a belly band, when a bulky sweater is OK. Ivan