I have 3 AR-style rifles, and only my Noveske is that tight that I need tools to push out the pins. I probably have about 700 rounds through it so far, and I did have the upper & lower Cerakoted when they were brand new. Initially, I did use a small metal rod wrapped in sandpaper to remove any of the coatings that had been left in the path of the pins. It has loosened up a little over time, but not to the point that I can disassemble it without either using a punch or something similar. I've accepted this, thinking that I'd rather have it snug (aka precise) than loose. My 15-22 is no where near this tight, and pins can easily be removed (as I think I mentioned above) without any tools. I'd shoot the gun for a while (longer than I have) before altering it to make pin removal easier.
ETA: I'd add that since writing my post a few spaces up in this thread, I have sold / parted out a Spike's / DD AR and replaced it with a new one. My Northtech Defense matching set is easily field stripped, and the Noveske matching set is far from it.