I purchased an Optic Plate model with manual 1911 style manual safety. Mine is to do just that, pocket carry, wife’s purse, anywhere small and light is important. Not a particularly great range gun. Recoil might be oppressive for an inexperienced shooter. Small and light is great to carry, not shoot all day.
Mine is surprisingly accurate, but requires a strong grip to accomplish great groups. That said, groups are not important. Ease of carry and lots of rounds on board. Negates the requirement to have an extra magazine along which is a pain in the butt!
It is a sweet, reliable, compact, easy to carry firearm. I STRONGLY suggest you only purchase the model with the manual safety. Your description of how you will use it, an extra safety is smart. Pocket carry is the most risky, ease to put a finger where it shouldn’t be when pulling is out. Keys and other objects, while not likely, but possibly can pull a trigger. The manual on this gun is excellent. Easy and fast off and on, plus, if someone inadvertently gets the gun, it won’t go bang with a simple trigger pull.
Get one, you won’t regret it, especially for your defined style of usage.
Jim