I hardly know how to begin this. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes...tears of joy. Tears of relief. Tears of gratitude. I'm not just exaggerating here as I sometimes do, or using a figure of speech. I really do have tears in my eyes. I'll try to explain.
If you are an amputee, blind, paralyzed, it doesn't make any difference. People will be kind and patient with you, hold doors for you etc. But if you can't hear you are just a stupid old man beneath contempt. I don't think people mean to be unkind but it just seems to be a natural reaction. the fact is people don't like to repeat themselves.
So after a while you learn to just smile and "fake it". Movies and tv are usually torture. You either have to keep interrupting the show to find out what was said or just sit there in silence and let it go. I'd love to have a dollar for every time I just sat there and watched the moving picture on the screen with a bunch of gobbley-gook going into my ears. Even with hearing aids. I often have to turn them up so loud that all sound is distorted.
I used to see my uncle and a few other old people that were deaf. Never included in conversations going on all around them. Just sitting there with a blank stare in their eyes not really being a part of anything. Well folks I'm there to some extent and I must accept it. People joke about it, I even do that myself, you know laughing to keep from crying kind of thing.
But with this surround sound. I don't miss a word... not one syllable. But the thing that put the tears in my eyes was how music sounds to me now. Some of you know how much I love music and have heard me say that the more of my hearing that goes away the more I love and crave to hear music.
We will get our new 55" flat screen hooked up and hung on the wall tomorrow and that'll be nice but the thing that put the joy in my soul is the surround sound. Listen, if you are loosing your hearing and having trouble with tv and home stereo please PLEASE take a tip from me and get surround sound. I mean it!!! You won't believe how wonderful it is to hear what you have been missing. I just can't overstate this.
Please y'all, be happy for me tonight. This is a monster of an improvement in my quality of life. If I was 5 years younger I'd do a back flip! RILLY!
If you are an amputee, blind, paralyzed, it doesn't make any difference. People will be kind and patient with you, hold doors for you etc. But if you can't hear you are just a stupid old man beneath contempt. I don't think people mean to be unkind but it just seems to be a natural reaction. the fact is people don't like to repeat themselves.
So after a while you learn to just smile and "fake it". Movies and tv are usually torture. You either have to keep interrupting the show to find out what was said or just sit there in silence and let it go. I'd love to have a dollar for every time I just sat there and watched the moving picture on the screen with a bunch of gobbley-gook going into my ears. Even with hearing aids. I often have to turn them up so loud that all sound is distorted.
I used to see my uncle and a few other old people that were deaf. Never included in conversations going on all around them. Just sitting there with a blank stare in their eyes not really being a part of anything. Well folks I'm there to some extent and I must accept it. People joke about it, I even do that myself, you know laughing to keep from crying kind of thing.
But with this surround sound. I don't miss a word... not one syllable. But the thing that put the tears in my eyes was how music sounds to me now. Some of you know how much I love music and have heard me say that the more of my hearing that goes away the more I love and crave to hear music.
We will get our new 55" flat screen hooked up and hung on the wall tomorrow and that'll be nice but the thing that put the joy in my soul is the surround sound. Listen, if you are loosing your hearing and having trouble with tv and home stereo please PLEASE take a tip from me and get surround sound. I mean it!!! You won't believe how wonderful it is to hear what you have been missing. I just can't overstate this.
Please y'all, be happy for me tonight. This is a monster of an improvement in my quality of life. If I was 5 years younger I'd do a back flip! RILLY!