A universal dilemma and one we have all had to go through when we first started to carry concealed. The best idea to my way of thinking is to SHOP and TRY where possible. Pick a few things out and see how they feel in your hand. Some of the first things to pay attention is fit. How well does it fit in your hand and how comfortable is it? Also the grip angle will vary and you should make sure that your choice suits you.
Try a few revolvers and a few Semi autos. Right now I guess that semi autos are in vogue but a good double action revolver is hard to beat.And very important I think is not to be influenced by what OTHERS have said they like or didn't like. They are not you and have no clue what you like. Also don't dismiss out of hand the polymer pistols. Glocks and XDs are hard working, straight shooting, tough as nails and easily maintained. You'll hear a lot of hate but 99% if that is coming from those that have no experience with them. I'd advise that you not worry too much about looks. I know, I know, no one want's to carry an ugly gun but function will turn out to be your primary concern if you ever have to use it.
THINK FOR YOURSELF
You will hear the old saying, "There is no substitute for the well placed round". That is quite true. If you can't hit with it then it doesn't matter how big it is our how pretty it is. Any hand gun that you can operate safely and easily and shoot accurately is going to do the job for you.
Also don't be in a hurry. Take your time and shop for price and selection until you are sure. If you wind up getting something you don't really like you will not use it.
And while we are on the subject here's my take on holsters. I'm a leather guy but that's just me what ever you choose should be comfortable and easily concealable. I find that just one holster doesn't begin to cover all the various situations. I use IWB, OWB, Shoulder, and ankle holsters depending up on weather, dress, activity, which particular hand gun I'll be carrying, etc.
If you are like me and most of my friends you will wind up with a dresser drawer of holsters that you never use. It takes a while living with a holster before you can really get the feel of it and know if you like it or not. But a good holster and proper gun belt are crucial to carrying a hand gun safely and comfortably.
And in parting let me say that an important aspect of carrying a hand gun is CONFIDENCE. What ever gun and holster you choose should provide you with confidence. And finally you should not carry ANY gun until you spend some time getting to know it backwards, forwards, upside down, and wrong side out. You should get familiar with all the controls and sound and recoil and weight and all it's features. You should know it's limitations and your own. In a "situation" you won't have time to stop and think what you need to do. It should all be second nature just like your next breath.
Good luck and let us know what you get. Pics would be good.
