Alright, this has been coming for a while now so here goes:
I'll preface my comments with a couple of thoughts.
. Everyone is certainly entitled to their opinion and noone has the right to criticize another's opinion. Live and let live.
. A lot of people form opinions based on what they have HEARD or READ and NOT on first hand experience. This applies to almost everything out there. There is a name for it but I don't know what it is.
I'm living proof that perceptions can change as we age. I have always been a dog lover...still am. But I was a cat hater. Had several bad experiences which only served to turn me off even more.
So....the years roll by and then on a visit to relatives in the country (where I now live) in January of 2005, we were all out on the front porch when this scrawny beat up looking orange cat came up out of the woods right up onto the front porch. rubbing our legs and meowing. My SIL picked him up and he purred loudly.
Everyone looked at me...Hell no! No way!
SIL said take him home, clean him up and give him a chance. If it doesn't work out bring him back and I'll take him. I agreed telling her that I would hold her to it.
We took him home and took him to the vet. $2500.00 later he was all st and immediately started to gain weight and look better. Turned out he was FIV-positive (feline aides). we had the pleasure of his friendship for 7 years before he passed away.
It is the best relationship I ever had with and animal. He was my friend, my confident and cared for me when I needed it.
You have to go into cat ownership with the right expectations and the right attitude. And you have to be patient. But in the fullness of time you can have a very rewarding relationship with a cat. Each one is an individual with his own personality. We curree3ently have 3 cats. One is aloof but friendly in his way. One is a rascal, the Eddie Haskle of cats. One loves every body. Always wanting you to love on him. But all 3, despite their differences, are great pets and a source of comfort and joy.
1. His first day as our pet.
2. I came home from work sick and he stayed with me
3. He weighed 10 lbs when we got him. he weighed 21 lbs in this pic. Turned out to be a handsome feller.
4. Another point in his favor, he loved guns and the smell of Hoppe's #9.
In the words of Jimmy BUffet, "Don't ever try to describe the ocean if you've never seen it...you might just wind up being wrong.
As you were....