Why do some cops seem arrogant?

I am close to 73 years old. Off hand, I cant remember but once getting mad because a LEO was arrogant. But then I have a thick skin and really never felt or picked up on it like others seem to. I probley have seen it of course a few times where I wasn't involved. Oddly, I have noticed the bigger the LEO, the less I have seen it. I was NOT a leo, however many of the men I worked with were retired LE, and I was present in situations where there were interactions between them and others.
One time I witnessed a bad roll over with a lot of people in the car, maybe six or seven, some of them kids. Most were threw out but at least one was pinned in the car. This was just after that freeway was opened and it was in the dessert. I and another two or three guys used a jack to spread the door open and roof apart to remove the person. The car was upside down and here come another guy walking up smoking! We bellered for him to back off and I remember him looking insulted. Here come a CHP right after we got him out and he bellered at us all to get in our vehicles and leave. That left a rather bad taste in my mouth but I just walked off and left.
Another incident was a real humorous to me but not my friend. He, his wife and I were riding harleys on a narrow dippy desert road. Bill got ahead in traffic but I and a long string of cars had to hang behind a slow car for many miles. It got real aggravating as the car was going about ten under and eventually I bet there were at least 15 cars behind me like a funeral procession. Finally I seen my chance and passed. A long string of cars also followed me around. Now two things happened seconds apart. First I seen bill and judy pulled over and off their hog waiting for me standing under a huge Joshua tree along side the road maybe 300 yards ahead. Then I see a CHP flying around the cars pointing at each one of them to pull over. About 3 or 4 cars behind me! I coasted to a stop and got off along side bill and judy. The officer walked right down the line and got three or four drivers license`s as he come up to me. I knew I technically was in the wrong and didnt argue but then he asked bill for his license! Bill blew up and called him a name. I slightly knew the patrolman. Bill was a ex motor cop himself and they got into it. Bill said he seen the cop sitting off the road in a small turn off between some dips in the road. The cop guessed bill was leading us pack of speeders but bill claimed he wasn't speeding and had been there like 5 or 10 minuets waiting for me to catch up. With my sense of humor I thought it funny. I went to traffic school but bill payed the ticket as he lived about 70 miles away and didnt want to take a day off. I never had seen a cop hit paydirt like that. I think there were at least 5 of us got tickets! He was a mouthy forceful cop too, but when you are ticketing 5 men alone out in the middle of nowhere I suppose you have to come on strong. That was about 35 years ago and I got to go to school once more since then.
 
I think its the uniform thing myself.
Some guys think when they put it on it makes
them some kind of Super Hero or something.
I've met these type and a heckuva lot of good,
down to earth types as well.

Chuck
 
chud333,
You are right, however, the first time some punk shoves the badge so far up ya that sun doesn't shine on it, that feeling leaves you real quick.
 
My experiences with "cops" has been generally positive other than that thing when I was 13, but even then the cops treated me pretty darn nicely!

I've broken down on the side of the road more than once and on two occasions I can remember off-hand, once in the middle of the night and once in the early morning. Both times a State Trooper pulled up, and ended up giving me a ride to get help...I'd call that pretty decent.
I've been pulled over for speeding...always maintained my composure and showed respect for the officer and while I usually got a ticket, I never felt hassled or treated arrogantly.
Once I was blasting up I-55 after a 12 hour ICU shift, doing 110mph in my Thunderbird V8 and and blew past an unmarked police car who was soon behind me with the lights. The guy saw by my attire what I did for a living, admonished me for driving double the speed limit and let me go...certainly he COULD have arrested my a$$ and I knew it and responded to him in a manner that showed I knew it...it's called respect.
Working in hospital emergency rooms and ICU's over the years I've encountered a lot of cops and they're the same as everyone else under the uniform.
These days I work in a correctional setting, around a lot of badged officers. I have to respect the fact that they are "there" (in the medical department) charged with the duty of protecting ME and my staff when an inmate decides to act out. A lot of 'em end up injured in fights, some career-ending (and I don't mean BS injuries) because they jumped in to save a medical staff memeber from being harmed...gotta respect that.
I've said it before, cops are the "tip of the spear" in society...they see the worst of humanity yet we expect them to maintain their humanity even when being verbally lambasted by someone who thinks they have to puff-up to prove something. I think once an officer sees he is dealing with a decent person who respects what he does, MOST become pretty friendly.

Unfortunately, these days all too many are out there running around with the "con mentality" (even the ones who haven't yet been inside) and that is they feel compelled to resist, to argue, to make sure the officer knows they're "hard" and "bad." These are the clowns to like to "step out of the car" to meet the officer rather than remain inside when the officer has NOT asked them to exit. These are the types who seek to engage the officer in a dialoque that proves their superiority rather than let the officer set the tone and pace. These are the clowns who LOVE to get strapped with their little "permit" and make sure the cop "knows" they're bad just like him! So if a police officer comes off "arrogant" upon the initial meeting, please allow HIM some slack...treat him respectfully, let him know by both your verbal and "meta" communication that you're not a threat and not trying to run a game on him and that arrogance will likely evaporate once he feels comfortable that you aren't looking for a confrontation.
Just my $4.58.
 
I have had the pure pleasure of doing ride alongs with city, county and state officers. I have assisted in the investigation of fatal crashes involving large trucks. I have testified in court for the prosecution and sometimes for the citing officer. I can say with no reservation there is no finer group of individuals I have ever worked with except for the Marines I have known...
 
chud333,
You are right, however, the first time some punk shoves the badge so far up ya that sun doesn't shine on it, that feeling leaves you real quick.

The above will usually happen with in 6 -18 months on the job. It's a real eye opener to learn that not everyone is as impressed with you as you are. It's even less fun to quickly learn you are not a tough as you thought you were:eek:
 
The above will usually happen with in 6 -18 months on the job. It's a real eye opener to learn that not everyone is as impressed with you as you are. It's even less fun to quickly learn you are not a tough as you thought you were:eek:

My point exactly.
 
Cops get into a good guy/bad guy mentality. When all you see are cops or dirtbags, its awful easy to do. Some start to believe that if you are not a cop, that makes you a dirtbag. I always tried to keep friends who were not on the force so I could keep my perspective.

^^^+^^^ In the job, it's very easy to slip into that "us against them" mentality. Gets to the point where all you do is hang out with other cops and talk about the job. That's a shortcut to a burn out. This is where professionalism comes to the surface. Yes, you have to deal with bottom feeders, all trying to get over on you. But, when it gets to the point when you throw the rest of society in the same hopper, it's time to take a long look at that guy in the mirror.
 
I'll bet that LEOs see their fair share of arrogance and imagine it might "flavor" their attitude on the next encounter they have from time to time.
That's only human nature. The more experienced ones know how to file a bad stop away and move onto the next one.
I imagine the real trick is how to purge the bad stuff every day so it doesn't build up and you take it home at the end of your shift.
Tough job.
 
What the author describes as arrogant "acting all distant and aloof and snobby" doesn't fit my definition of an arrogant cop. I don't expect a cop to be a perky smiling greeting committee or act like a peer/coworker during an encounter. This sounds like it was written as an apology to Hollywood types who are used to people fawning over them or other overly sensitive types.

Cop is in charge. Be polite. Do as he instructs. Deny requests when appropriate. This formula has served me well and has always been met with professionalism in return.
 
I think I ran across more indignant people, than I did brothers in blue.


WuzzFuzz
 
At one time, I met the same officer 4 times professionally :eek:: my speeding ticket (got a warning), and accidents my wife, daughter, and son were involved in without personal injury. My son's accident was our fourth meeting. The officer's first words were, "Not you again!!" We had a good laugh, shook hands, and the other driver knew he had a problem (he was at fault) :D .

Dbags are found in every work place, but why have I met so many? It's called work for a reason. It's why we receive a paycheck. :rolleyes:
 
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In my ~30 years behind the badge, I'm proud to say that I treated people as good and fair as they would allow me. The person being dealt with by the officer sets the 'tone' of the encounter, not the other way around.

At least that's how professional, well trained LEO's work.
I'm proud of the fact that I worked amongst some of the very best.
 

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