I've put Wolff 13# rebound springs in all my j-frames but left the stock main springs in place. No reliability issues at all. I also polish the rebound slide and adjacent frame surfaces. Those two things make for a big improvement in the DA pull. I tried a Wolff 8# mainspring but it didn't seem to make much difference in the pull over the stock 8-1/2 pounder, so I left the stocker in for reliablity's sake.
I think a properly-engineered lighter-weight spring is worlds better than a shortened stock spring. That was the way to go back in the day, but nowadays proper springs are readily available (Wolff, Wilson, Apex) and cheap-- no need to improvise.
I don't get it with the longer firing pins in the Apex kit, I never heard of a problem due to the standard length firing pin but then again all my j's are vintage hammer-nose models. CAV, when you say you installed Apex kits and they "made a world of difference", did the longer firing pins cure misfire issues or are you just referring to the trigger pull?