There's something to be said for those long & heavy DA revolver triggers.
I'd never recommend that someone carry a handgun as a defensive weapon if they were uncomfortable with it. Never. Just like I wouldn't suggest they get a driver's license and a car if they weren't comfortable with the idea of driving and felt they'd rather get around by other means. Or learn to ride a motorcycle just because they were comfortable driving cars & light trucks.
I'd never consider recommending someone carry a semiauto if they were more comfortable with DA/DAO revolvers (presuming they had a choice and it wasn't a job requirement, of course).
I try to shy away from making specific recommendations to folks unless I know something about their knowledge, skills and experience ... and I'd really prefer to have had some time working alongside them on the range.
I've never disagreed with a non-LE shooter during a class when they said they weren't comfortable carrying a semiauto pistol and only wanted to carry a DA revolver. Their choice. I agreed with them understanding the limits of their knowledge (familiarization & safety), training, experience, confidence and comfort and choosing to use a revolver if that's what they used safely and well.
I've seen some folks shoot their revolvers noticeably better than their 'new' semiauto pistols, too.
In forums like this one I'll sometimes explain some of what I've learned about some firearms as an armorer, but it's only for the purpose of polite discussion and general informational purposes. Not to recommend or convince someone to do something with which they're unfamiliar, or lack the training and experience to know how to do it safely. That's for the folks who can be present as 'hands-on' trainers, not something done over the internet.
I don't care how many safety features a firearm may possess, either, I don't like to completely place my trust in them to the exclusion of experience and common sense. I like to minimize my exposure to unnecessary risk. The longer I'm around firearms, carrying them and training in the use of them, and helping train others to use them, the more cautious and conservative I become in my approach to handling, manipulating, carrying them and using them.
BTW, I carry a S&W J-frame more often than I do a semiauto pistol now that I'm retired. I use a pocket holster, though, to keep the trigger guard covered. Just in case.
It pays to be safe. There's a saying in risk management circles ... Predictable is Preventable.
