I think you chose wisely for your wife. Well, as long as she thinks so. I find it odd that many times on other guns sites that there is such a resistance to women using revolvers. Or anyone for that matter. I understand the upsides to auto's.
But so many people in my life find revolvers more intuitive, easier to use. Yes, they are harder to shoot in double action than a nice single action auto trigger. Especially J frames. But what good is an auto if a person can't manipulate the slide? My wife can only rack the slide on a few autos I've ever owned. Although we hadn't tried that new .380 Shield.
But my Mom, Dad and wife all think revolvers are easier to use, and more intuitive and don't confuse them. I know that may be a hard pill for some people to swallow, but it's just the case. Yes, training can overcome that and we all should get some. But some things just work better for some people. I'd rather have 5-6 shots from a revolver than someone fumbling with a gun they can't use.
Anyways... that's my rant. I've taken a lot of abuse over the years from people saying revolvers are dumb and not a good choice for defense and I just don't agree. Now, if I was seriously going to war would I choose a revolver. Not as a primary gun. But if my primary gun was an M4 and M16 and I wasn't issued a handgun, I would have no problem adding a j frame to my kit for those just in case, oh **** moments. BUG. As a civilian homeschooler Dad just living life every day, a revolver is a heck of a lot better than nothing.
Point being, very nice choice OP. Would love to see pics of yours.