As someone who loads for a 357 Magnum Rifle I consider a 140 grain bullet at 1875 fps to be just a bit warm, for hot you drop the bullet weight down to 125 grains and increase the velocity above 2300 fps.
However, those velocities are out of a 20 inch Winchester Short Rifle. Out of a 3 inch barrel I just don't think "hot" is possible with any weight bullet. The problem is you don't have enough barrel length to efficiently utilize a "slow" powder such as H110 or Lil Gun and a "fast" powder such as Accurate #5 just won't produce chart topping velocities. So, you'll be doing well to get your 180 grain bullet above 1000 fps. BTW, I would suggest using either Longshot or Accurate #7 for that weight bullet in a 3 inch barrel. With a 6 inch barrel I'd use Accurate #9 for a 180 grain bullet.
As for potential damage to the forcing cone on your revolver, the heavier weight bullets will exit the cylinder at a reduced velocity when compared to a lighter bullet and since Kinetic Energy is 1/2 Mass x V^2 that heavier bullet will strike the forcing cone with less energy than a lighter bullet faster load. To put it in simple terms a load featuring a 180 grain bullet will be gentler on your revolver than a load featuring a lighter bullet.