Oh yeah, YouTube can be loaded with bad information. Plus real informative revolver shooters are kind of dieing off. It's an old man's game. Anyway I have two short 357's, a 1.78" and a 3". I tend to shoot .38 cal.148 & 150 gr. Hardcast wadcutters nickel plated brass and hot in both. Sometimes loading Hornady FTX .38's in speed strips for easy reloading. Hot wads were the thing 50 years ago. Works for me.Avoid YouTube; your own work will provide you with far more vital information.
I've shot 357's way in the past. OK, big bang. I'll stick with what I can shoot rapidly and groups well. Went many years with a Airweight now mostly carry an Air Lite. No way am I popping off magnums in a 11.7 Oz. gun.