I agree. The popular wisdom with the .380 ACP (and .32 ACP) has been to just use an FMJ, but that doesn't make much sense unless you understand how the hollow point you are using might fail.
In some calibers, including the .380 ACP, it is possible for a poorly chosen hollow point to over expand and under penetrate, and that is a concern.
However more often with the .380 ACP shooters get concerned about hollow points that fail to expand, particularly after penetrating heavy clothing. But if that happens, then it will perform just like a truncated cone FMJ.
An example of this is the 90gr XTP, either hand loaded or in any one of a half dozen or so commercial loads. The XTP bullet expands in a very controlled and moderate manner and over expansion just isn't an issue. It can fail to expand in a heavy clothing test, but when that happens it's still no worse than an FMJ - with the benefit that it's a win every time it does expand. In comparison an FMJ will fail to expand every time.
In that regard, my order of preference in the .380 ACP is:
1) 90 gr XTP;
2) 102 gr Golden Saber (a bullet that is more prone to under expansion than over expansion, but tends to penetrate slightly less than a 90 gr XTP);
3) pretty much any 90-100 gr FMJ (where all you're going to ever get is penetration.