Sometimes a second opinion reminds us what we should be looking at.
Took down my ceiling fan to paint it, put it all back together again, mounted it to the ceiling wired it up, the fan works okay by the switch on the wall. I flicked thr other switch the light wouldn't work by the switch . Just to be sure I check some references for correct wiring, and it was wired correctly. Guess what?
I forgot to pull the chain on the light.
DUH !!