Black Hills Ammo is some pretty good stuff too, but also limited to the "Cowboy ammo".
Here's an option that might work for you if you don't want to wait for the wife to donate some of her work space.
I started out reloading some 40 years ago when I was living a tiny bachelor studio apartment.
I used a Black and Decker workmate collapsible work bench and initially held the press on with a couple of large "C" clamps.
Later on I "upgraded" it. The workmate top has holes drilled through it to put plastic "dogs" in to hold onto the edges of a board laying flat on the table. l bought a large 1" thick "butcher block" cutting board, layed it on top of the workmate and then from underneath I traced where those holes are located. Next I drilled the cutting board about 1/2" deep, the same diameter of the holes in the workmate, glued wood dowels into the drilled holes that I cut to extend the thickness of workmate top.
With that I could set it on top of the workmate table and insert the dowels into the "dog" holes to hold the "auxiliary" top in place, providing heavy duty working surface.
When I was done, the workmate got folded up, and it, the butcher block top, and a large plastic storage bin with all of my reloading equipment got stored in a coat closet.
This set up works well for pistol calibers, especially when you use carbide sizing dies that don't take as much effort to run the cases into.
For equipment, you're lucky that in this day and age RCBS makes a pretty good basic kit with what you'll need, or you can see if anyone here has stuff that they want to sell, and it won't cost too much to get going.
A good heavy single stage press will suffice, and the Lee Challenger kit sold by MidwayUSA looks to be a great starter kit. Had it been available when I started out, I'm pretty sure I would have went with it to get started without a big investment. That way if you find out reloading isn't your thing, you're not into it too deep cost wise.
Even after I moved into a house where I put up a stationary reloading bench, I still used that workmate set-up as a portable reloading bench at the range when I got bit by the benchrest shooting bug.
There is one word of warning... you won't save any money reloading, but you'll be shooting a heck of a lot more often not having to buy commercially loaded ammo
