Thanks guys. Spent some time comparing my two 686's to each other. Seems the one that gets stuck somewhat is just a little more finicky than the other. I looked at the pin that pushes the ejector rod out, the finicky gun seems to be recessed a bit more than the other one. Thanks for that suggestion TAC.
I also understand a little bit more about these guns. I see what scooter123 is talking about. There is a piece that goes through the ejector rod assembly that needs to get pushed all the way through so the front end of that ejector rod gets unlocked (for lack of a better term).
By the way, the ejector rod itself is tight.
I found that I just need to press firmly on the cylinder release. Very firmly, then it releases just fine.
I also noticed that this 686 has a much more obvious line from the rear spring-loaded pin on the ejector rod than the other 686 I have. Springs seem to have the same tension, so maybe this gun just got used a lot more before I bought it than the other one did.
Anyway, it does open, just not as quickly as it should. I have seen some people replace the cylinder release with a different type that protrudes outwards and gives your thumb a nice ledge to press against so it (your thumb) doesn't slide-off as easily.
Anyone know who makes them? Seems like it is a simple swap, just one screw holds it in place.