A grandpa by any other name.

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I have 9 grandkids, and the thread about Lullabies got me thinking about what and why they call me what they do.

The oldest two are my oldest son's. His wife is from Germany, and she was very concerned that my grandchildren would address me as Opa, which she was reserving for her father. We agreed on grandpa, like i had a choice or ever expected anything else.

The next 3 are my daughter's triplets. From the time they could talk, I've been grandpa.


The youngest two are my second son's. They are 3 years and Jamess is 3 month old. Anne calls both her grandpas that and is very loud about letting everyone know when she is with either of us!

That brings me to #6 & #7. 5 and 3year old girls. My kids always call me dad. Until my youngest son was in College Then he started calling me Pops! Now his daughters call me Pop pop.

When there is a gathering and the grandkids want my attention, they call me by their preferred name and the others seem to understand that this is the Right of all grandchildren. I just strikes me as funny, that even with their regional or national accents, I understand they demand my undivided attention!

What are the Joys of your life calling you?

Ivan
 
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My ex-wife and I never had any kids of our own and therefore I've never known the joy you folks are discussing. However I have had a family in my life for over 45 years and their son and daughter have always referred to me as "uncle ed". My "adopted" family's son has 5 little ones (13 - 4 years old) and they also call me "uncle ed". While not pops, grandpa or umpa. I carry my given name with pride. It is a blessing to be given the honor of being part of their lives and being allowed to spend time with their kids and at least be able to share in a little bit of the experience.
 
Was always Grandma to the first nine grands, but the tenth has attempted to use some other silliness. I corrected him.
Just remembered that after my first chemotherapy, my hair at first grew back in tight curls, my eldest grandson liked to touch my hair and call me "G-Fro" (Grandma with an afro).

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Both my granddaughters call me Pepop. Because I would play the silly game where I would hide my face and holler Pee pie. Their mother and my son always corrects them when they call me Papaw because that what they call her father. Even though they only live less than two miles away we get to see them about once a month.
 
Many years ago, now, my second wife become a grandmother by her son from her first marriage. Although the two families lived some miles apart, we babysat regularly. Following our recovered tradition, my wife was "Bubbie" and I was "Zayde." However, our granddaughter Ella, like most, didn't learn everything at once. For some time, she called both my wife and me "Bubbie."

One time, they came to visit us at our house. As my wife looked out the window and saw them approaching, she said, "Heah come Ella with them two Bubbies."

[Note: This will not be funny unless you've already heard the original joke, which cannot be reproduced here. Maybe not even then.]
 
My four grandchildren all call me Grandpa. If they ever tried to call me anything else, I would tell them, "My name is Grandpa". I've never understood why grandfathers need to be called by different names. I called both my grandfathers "Grandpa". If we needed to differentiate between the two, we just used their last names. Grandpa Smith or Grandpa Jones, etc.

All of my cousins called one of my grandfathers "Paw Paw". I cringed every time I heard it. :cool:
 
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